Standing as a safeguard against crime and also serving as a resort in case of its occurrence, the city police of Hyderabad activated the 1091 emergency number on Monday.
Increasing complaints of eve-teasing and harassment from in-laws, lodged by women across the city prompted the police to take their protection services to a higher level, said North Zone Hyderabad DGP Nagi Reddy.
Talking about the new 1091 services, any woman facing either physical or mental abuse or harassment, or being subjected to intidimation & trauma, can contact the police immediately by dialling 1091 and take their help, he said.
The police also promised to reach the victim's location within 20 minutes of the call. While most of the police force in service for this purpose hails from the CCS police station, other policemen will be dispatched if available at closer locations.
d srinivasa raoon 4th Jul 2013, 1:26am | Permalink
RESPECTED SIR/MADAM ON 27.06.2012 MY DAUGHETER DV MANASA & K SAMENDER GOT MARRIED (LOVE MARRIAGE) IN ONE OF THE ARYA SAMAJ AT HYDERABAD. TILL TODAY THEY HAVE NOT SHOWN THEIR MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE. NOW FOR WANT OF DOWRY HE AND HIS PARENTS ARE GIVING TROUBLE TO MY DAUGHTER. RECENTLY THEY HAVE CHANGED THEIR HOUSE TO BALANAGAR (VERY FEW DAYS BACK). HENCE WE DON’T KNOW THEIR ADDRESS. WE ARE AT NELLORE. WE KNOW ONLY THEIR PHONE NOs. THAT BASTERED NO.9948348251 & MY DAUGHETER MANASA NOs.7382242504 & 9949479734. KINDLY DO SOME FAVOUR AND HELP MY DAUGHTER.
visiondreamindiaon 18th Feb 2015, 11:06am | Permalink
Dear Mam, Today i came to this site just by chance as i wanted to help one of the women came from somewhere and roaming here on the roads.But i couldn't find any NGO picking up the phone and also the womens police station when i called said they don't give womens help.
Anyways i feel bad for your daughter, i will suggest all the parents dont marry your daughter to any such guy who demands for money, I am not from a telugu family. but being in AP i have understood the family who has sons are very shameless people when they sell their sons sorry pets and they should understand they also might be having daughters.I have seen lots of castesism is AP shame again when I came here I felt Hi-tech city, MBA' engineers,MCA's ,doctors they have educated themselves only to earn money by selling themselves ,I think the AP men are not capable enough to bring up their own house and family ,will not like to generalise as there are few who are good people but that number is very small.
I am not sure anybody,saw your post in last 3 years but you should have apporched police.Make your daughter independent let her study and work, and she will get the right person.Don't go after matching caste and family richness and educated boys but search for a good soul for your daughter.
i am working for hbl since some days one person is troubling me he is krishna of a house keeping services.he owns this company.he is abusing me and torturing me .he is saying if i dont respond to him he will punish me badlymy parents are very poor and bcos of which i work.its becoming difficult to go to office.i cannot say my name bocs he threatened me if i take help of anyone
visiondreamindiaon 18th Feb 2015, 10:58am | Permalink
Dear Saroja,
When somebody threatens you and you get scared that is the winning point.When you are not wrong there is no need to get scared and i understand you are poor and you need job tell anyone of your friend in your office like any girl who can capture this behaviour on phone or please approach police, but i am not sure how many get justice from police. Look out for another job side by side though running away is not the solution but I know your situation is troublesome.
I came across a guy who wanted to marry me but due to difference in religion, age etc I rejected him however he was very much behind me to get married. I wanted to take time to know if he really loved me…never was there an instance he showed negative image about he not liking me . However, he told that we will have to wait until his elder bro gets married..I agreed and waited patiently for 5 yrs...he also conveyed bad image about his parents (stating they never regard him in family etc). In between the boy always used to ask me to do register marriage not knowing when his brother would get married to which the I was not agreeing as she wanted to get married in front of society and with both parents blessing and was not right getting married before his elder brother was married .I started liking him slowly After a while I put him in front of my family so that they get to see him he was more like a family friend…later I received a match to which my dad was asking me about my opinion when in I had to tell about this person in my life and my dad agreed to meet him in order to see his family and take this forward .This guy told my dad that we should not approach them until his bro was married to which my father insisted that it was only to know opinion and that we could wait for his bro to get married first and stressed to meet his family .This guy never had a answer to my dad and in a 3-4 months time my dad expired to which this guy got a registered marriage Jun’12 done with me without his parents presence. My family clearly stated that unless we are married in front of society we me and my family will not consider this register marriage as marriage. I asked him if he was fine if I kept my mom with me post our marriage and he agreed to it.I happen to purchase a house post seeing what all problems he faced with his family and that his life and death was only with me..his parents never bothered to come and see the house..they came after 4 months and saw the house for 5 mins in my absence and went away…Post that in Nov’12 the guy’s brother got engaged and later the guy came up and told me that we would get married in our Christian customer and he would get converted also …to which I happen to spk to his mom because he said that his family doesnot believe in Christian marriage..provided I spoke to his mom she was asking to wait for few months as they had one of they relative wedding and elder son wedding happening in Feb this year…however post that we had no good days in our community for marriage and that after a few months as she stated if we waited it would near to my dad’s death anniversary. She informed me that she would check with her husband and come back but never came back..this guy came back to my family stating that they parents don’t regard him nor are interested in him getting married in Christian customer and do as he like..he requested my family stating him to be considered as an orphan and get him married to me provided we requested his mom to be part of haldhi /wedding she never bothered. The boy by his own will got converted as christain and got married on 30th Dec. provided we invited his mother she did not bother to come for the marriage. Post marriage on 30th Dec’13 my husband requested me if he could stay at his place during weekdays in order to make arrangements for his elder bro wedding in Feb’13 and that he would stay with me on weekends and post his bro wedding we will move from our rent house to our new house .Post his bro wedding also my husband visited me only on weekends….i never put a pressure on him for this later in march/apr I got frustrated and started asking him about staying together. Slowly in May’13 my husb said that his parents wanted marriage in they customer (which he initially told that he would not agree to them as they did not consider christian marriage nor invited me to they residence ever) neither was my husb getting any loan..in Jul he had his mom, bro and cousin bro talk to my sis and mom when they invited us to a restaurant for arranging the marriage in they customer..however, the conversation by his cousin was very very rude and harsh and never wanted my fmly also to be part of wedding ..to which I rightly rejected the marriage in they custom to which my husb agreed but later came back saying his parents printed cards. With much reluctance I agreed after a lot of force from him (also told him that provided post marriage 29th Jul’13 I would not have any connect with his family) he agreed but post marriage his mom asked me to come over weekends to visit they place ( my husb coming to visit me earlier from Jan - Jun). I agreed however told my husb that what about we staying together as its been long that I had been waiting for him now. My husb started misbehaving by giving me emotional and mental torture and not coming to visit me on weekends laso .This is happening since Aug ’13 months and he visited her 5-6 times also not convey to his parents for the plans made by us staying at our own house ( his parents know that the he and I bought a house before marriage itself). The husb parents are not bothered and never came to resolve the issue during 4 months the boy elder brother got to know the way the marriages happened and scolded my husb and his mother for not keeping him in loop for whatever happened. Though me and my family and husband friends etc tried to help my husb understand he is still forcing and torturing me. Sometimes torturing that we will locate to Tarnaka (breaking my relation will all my family members. He never wanted me to have any connect with them the one who supported him all the while), or that I have to come to stay at begumpet at his house which is far from where I work (currently work in Gatkesar) when I questioned about what use buying the house and staying in rent house he gave lame excuse saying plp will call him ghar jamai ,or that I would make him a Christian (to which I never forced him since start to follow our religion and the house belonged to both of us though I paid the entire loan by myself). The guy is still harassing with messages and warning for divorce every time and again comes back to patch up. Since Aug’13 he is behaving like this and its been 4 months now that he is never stable in his thoughts. Since Aug he stopped coming on weekends and visited 5-6 times only saying sorry. Later when he goes back to his place he keeps on changing his mind now and than saying he would stay with his parents not considering that I will have s to travel 40 kms one way if I moved from current location to work. Sometimes tells we will shift to a different location .He keeps saying that they have loan for the marriage of his brother and have house on mortgage. They hardly invited 30-40 people for our marriage in their custom. At last I gave him one option stating that I have no negativity towards his parents and always will come down to meet his parents on weekends provided he consider about my health travelling in public transport to office and that its risky at night and that I wouldnot get into new house until he said ..just that we would move to different location. I also told him that I would never force him for following my custom and that will serve him till am able too. Told him that he never had to give his salary to me (which he never gave a penny till date) and that he needs to give to his parents only …I gave him a weeks time to think and come back..but he still did not get back..am not unable to understand what the hell is wrong with this guy.I wanted to go to his friends wedding so that I could meet him and get to speak to him and asked him to pick me to take me to his friends wedding he put conditions to me by his torturing message stating that if I had to come to his friends wedding I will have to come and stay in his house for 2 days and later plan for future and said that if I did not come to stay in his house he would come with advocate to my house in a weeks time to close the relation …I was scared to go to his house because his parents never contacted me for all these 5 months and by his behavior and harassing and warning messages all these months I know that they would all trash me and give me warning or do something to me…inspite of that to keep his family respect and his respect I went to the wedding with my brother but my husband ignored looking at us and his parents did not come to wedding either. when we thought of meeting him in the wedding he vanished from that place . Am really not sure what I should do to ensure my husband understand my value and life a proper married life with me…pls suggest immediately
visiondreamindiaon 18th Feb 2015, 11:52am | Permalink
Hi,
You eaducated womens, working and having your own house and i know in love we forget everything but friend please come out of the dream, he doesn't love you, he is just playing with your sentiments and as he knows you love and will not leave him, he is doing whatever he wants.I can just say get release from such a man, love never tortures or gives pain you and all the girls should understand this. Love is care and pur it will never like to hurt someone he/she loves.
And in your case it is clear he was after you as you ignored him and when you agreed he felt satisfied such people are psycho's and actually no love exists for such people.
Take care and live a life full of wisdom, take wise decisions, not easy many times i understand but until the girls start becoming strong mentally these things will go and on......................You are a smart women so make smart decision.
hi everyone. am suffering alot.i got into relationship wit a guy 4yrs before he is my school mate too.now at present his parents are forcing him to marry.he didnt tel them tht he is in relationship wit me.he wanted to leave me nw at da stage where he made a relationship and also had a physical relation with me giving me assurance tht he wil marry me.am from a middle class.....whn am askng him to approach der parents he is telng he is scared of thm nd he cant do tht. he just wanna leave me.he is blackmailing me tht if i force him he wil keep my number in public and harrase me.plz sister nd brother help me i am only daughter to my parents.....am getng mental tensions day by day................
visiondreamindiaon 18th Feb 2015, 10:55am | Permalink
Dear Friend,
You will waste your life on such a guy, but don't let him go free, make a police complaint and if you have proof then good, you can approach police as he is harassing you. Be strong at don't ever think of suicide you have not done anything wrong.Want to advise womens, as they are emotional they feel that the guy loves them don't give your body just like that to someone, if they really love you they will wait till the marriage happens, we are not still that westernised and getting westernised will never help our personal lifes, it will only bring problems.
Fall in love but dont commit about it immediately girls until you the persons habits completely, knowing a person even in years sometimes is difficult.
8125270977... my name is preethi. i have metally disturbed with the manager in my company. i need justice. please help me out. i wanted to suicide but i dont want to leave him at any cost. today me.. tomorrow there would be another person. am not talking about any proposal harrasments. but yes he did harrased me for many things. please help me need your help as soon as possible. i dont know whether i have to go to police station or labour action committee. please help me out.
Dear Preethi, Are you getting help ,when you drop mail over here, if not first all of you post here saying whether you got any help or not.Yes, you should go to the police station.Is this harassment still continiung dear. I f yes try to record his activities with your cell phone if possibel as you need proof.When i our country women raises her voice she has to give proof...thats our and laws fate.
hi madam i need ur help 3 mnths i got married n my inlaws n husband asking me money as we r rich daily demanding me to bring 10 thousand or 6k when my parents told to his parents dey left to my home till 2 mnths .not tking me to there home guy msg on my cell dat i need divorce .........plz help me out wt we had to nw
hi madam i need ur help 3 mnths i got married n my inlaws n husband asking me money as we r rich daily demanding me to bring 10 thousand or 6k when my parents told to his parents dey left to my home till 2 mnths .not tking me to there home guy msg on my cell dat i need divorce .........plz help me out wt we had to nw
I am no one but a women like you, what i can say is leave such a man ,give him divorce and if your parents have money dear you become indepenent, having such a man your life it is better to be alone. Become strong, you have to be strong, only you can save youself.
And if you really want to marry then marry a man not number 6.
I am not sure anybody saw your mail also over here.I pity the system of our country.Hope you are fine.
This guy harassing females in Hyderabad with fake number. He was not scared of POLICE, Etc speaking rubbishy. 9948284777 7386589198 8897107657 9948956677 8143753760 His name was tejeshwara rao, he lives in amalapuram, He called from above numbers to all girls and harassing too much, plz take immediate action on him and plz save the girls from him
am amandeep kaur w/o daljit singh my saas jethani or mere pati muje mently apset karte hai mai baba bakala repot ki thi. waha b sub inspecter ne muje beijat kiya or sub k samne beijat kiya. phele meri jethani saas pati ne mara karan ye k mere perents greeb hai papa ko lakwa hai mere 2 bache hai. shadi k 5 year se hi mere sasural wale dahej ko leker torcher karte hai or mera pati gujraat me jcb chlata hai 5 month k baad ghar aata. or uske gair mojudgi me sub muje marte hai muje rehne k liye ek kichen di jisme mai mere baby rehte hai ager mai kisi se help leti toh uske sath badnaam karke jagda karte or marte hai abb b muje mere babys ko ghar se nikal diya hai mai mehta k pass baba bakala repot ki koi sunwayi nahi hue mai buht dukhi hu jiska dil karta woh marta hai baba bakala thana ki sub inspecter ne b mere sasural k samne marna stat kar diya meri help karo nahi toh mai maajbur ho k bachon k sath suside kr lungi. my phon number 9779336255 insaff karo
Log a complaint at your area Police Station or call 100 and seek help with SHE TEAM.
visiondreamindiaon 18th Feb 2015, 11:10am | Permalink
1091 is not a valid number it says, i called from my cell phone.How people can reach this helpline, it is shocking thing and when i tried calling the women NGO's no one is picking phones, what the hell these NGO's are for then, when somebody in need cannot reach you.Finally one AShmita NGO picked up but they gave me another number of Bhumika and no one picks the call.........................
visiondreamindiaon 18th Feb 2015, 11:39am | Permalink
Hi, I want to post this information for all the women' as per the law crime against women, domestic violence, eve-teasing, forced abortion, sexual offence,dowry harassment, adultary and any rights issues you should complain in the police station where as you should ask for FIR (First Information Report) copy and also make sure that there is a women constable available while you are filing a case or are getting interrogated in the police station.
Don't be scared of anyone even police as they are there to support us and thats their main duty.I request the police to bring in themselves some humanity and feeling of doing their job right, they not only doing their job but they are definitely doing a good humanity job if they handle the things properly and they can be the heroes too.
friend i m jessi i stay in hyderabad one guy is touchering me alot .few days bak he was my gid frnd later he proposed me thn i said no i m not in love with u .i stped talking thn later he started blaackmailing me like marry me or talk to me if not ill come to ur home n tell ur dad about u .like this he is torchering me ...can any one call him and giive worning to him plz ....his num is7799173385 his name is lawrence plz any one can help me ? if hhe come to my home n makes issue then my dad will kill me n he also will die ....plz call him n help me plz