Standing as a safeguard against crime and also serving as a resort in case of its occurrence, the city police of Hyderabad activated the 1091 emergency number on Monday.
Increasing complaints of eve-teasing and harassment from in-laws, lodged by women across the city prompted the police to take their protection services to a higher level, said North Zone Hyderabad DGP Nagi Reddy.
Talking about the new 1091 services, any woman facing either physical or mental abuse or harassment, or being subjected to intidimation & trauma, can contact the police immediately by dialling 1091 and take their help, he said.
The police also promised to reach the victim's location within 20 minutes of the call. While most of the police force in service for this purpose hails from the CCS police station, other policemen will be dispatched if available at closer locations.
I came across a guy who wanted to marry me but due to difference in religion, age etc I rejected him however he was very much behind me to get married. I wanted to take time to know if he really loved me…never was there an instance he showed negative image about he not liking me . However, he told that we will have to wait until his elder bro gets married..I agreed and waited patiently for 5 yrs...he also conveyed bad image about his parents (stating they never regard him in family etc). In between the boy always used to ask me to do register marriage not knowing when his brother would get married to which the I was not agreeing as she wanted to get married in front of society and with both parents blessing and was not right getting married before his elder brother was married .I started liking him slowly After a while I put him in front of my family so that they get to see him he was more like a family friend…later I received a match to which my dad was asking me about my opinion when in I had to tell about this person in my life and my dad agreed to meet him in order to see his family and take this forward .This guy told my dad that we should not approach them until his bro was married to which my father insisted that it was only to know opinion and that we could wait for his bro to get married first and stressed to meet his family .This guy never had a answer to my dad and in a 3-4 months time my dad expired to which this guy got a registered marriage Jun’12 done with me without his parents presence. My family clearly stated that unless we are married in front of society we me and my family will not consider this register marriage as marriage. I asked him if he was fine if I kept my mom with me post our marriage and he agreed to it.I happen to purchase a house post seeing what all problems he faced with his family and that his life and death was only with me..his parents never bothered to come and see the house..they came after 4 months and saw the house for 5 mins in my absence and went away…Post that in Nov’12 the guy’s brother got engaged and later the guy came up and told me that we would get married in our Christian customer and he would get converted also …to which I happen to spk to his mom because he said that his family doesnot believe in Christian marriage..provided I spoke to his mom she was asking to wait for few months as they had one of they relative wedding and elder son wedding happening in Feb this year…however post that we had no good days in our community for marriage and that after a few months as she stated if we waited it would near to my dad’s death anniversary. She informed me that she would check with her husband and come back but never came back..this guy came back to my family stating that they parents don’t regard him nor are interested in him getting married in Christian customer and do as he like..he requested my family stating him to be considered as an orphan and get him married to me provided we requested his mom to be part of haldhi /wedding she never bothered. The boy by his own will got converted as christain and got married on 30th Dec. provided we invited his mother she did not bother to come for the marriage. Post marriage on 30th Dec’13 my husband requested me if he could stay at his place during weekdays in order to make arrangements for his elder bro wedding in Feb’13 and that he would stay with me on weekends and post his bro wedding we will move from our rent house to our new house .Post his bro wedding also my husband visited me only on weekends….i never put a pressure on him for this later in march/apr I got frustrated and started asking him about staying together. Slowly in May’13 my husb said that his parents wanted marriage in they customer (which he initially told that he would not agree to them as they did not consider christian marriage nor invited me to they residence ever) neither was my husb getting any loan..in Jul he had his mom, bro and cousin bro talk to my sis and mom when they invited us to a restaurant for arranging the marriage in they customer..however, the conversation by his cousin was very very rude and harsh and never wanted my fmly also to be part of wedding ..to which I rightly rejected the marriage in they custom to which my husb agreed but later came back saying his parents printed cards. With much reluctance I agreed after a lot of force from him (also told him that provided post marriage 29th Jul’13 I would not have any connect with his family) he agreed but post marriage his mom asked me to come over weekends to visit they place ( my husb coming to visit me earlier from Jan - Jun). I agreed however told my husb that what about we staying together as its been long that I had been waiting for him now. My husb started misbehaving by giving me emotional and mental torture and not coming to visit me on weekends laso .This is happening since Aug ’13 months and he visited her 5-6 times also not convey to his parents for the plans made by us staying at our own house ( his parents know that the he and I bought a house before marriage itself). The husb parents are not bothered and never came to resolve the issue during 4 months the boy elder brother got to know the way the marriages happened and scolded my husb and his mother for not keeping him in loop for whatever happened. Though me and my family and husband friends etc tried to help my husb understand he is still forcing and torturing me. Sometimes torturing that we will locate to Tarnaka (breaking my relation will all my family members. He never wanted me to have any connect with them the one who supported him all the while), or that I have to come to stay at begumpet at his house which is far from where I work (currently work in Gatkesar) when I questioned about what use buying the house and staying in rent house he gave lame excuse saying plp will call him ghar jamai ,or that I would make him a Christian (to which I never forced him since start to follow our religion and the house belonged to both of us though I paid the entire loan by myself). The guy is still harassing with messages and warning for divorce every time and again comes back to patch up. Since Aug’13 he is behaving like this and its been 4 months now that he is never stable in his thoughts. Since Aug he stopped coming on weekends and visited 5-6 times only saying sorry. Later when he goes back to his place he keeps on changing his mind now and than saying he would stay with his parents not considering that I will have s to travel 40 kms one way if I moved from current location to work. Sometimes tells we will shift to a different location .He keeps saying that they have loan for the marriage of his brother and have house on mortgage. They hardly invited 30-40 people for our marriage in their custom. At last I gave him one option stating that I have no negativity towards his parents and always will come down to meet his parents on weekends provided he consider about my health travelling in public transport to office and that its risky at night and that I wouldnot get into new house until he said ..just that we would move to different location. I also told him that I would never force him for following my custom and that will serve him till am able too. Told him that he never had to give his salary to me (which he never gave a penny till date) and that he needs to give to his parents only …I gave him a weeks time to think and come back..but he still did not get back..am not unable to understand what the hell is wrong with this guy.I wanted to go to his friends wedding so that I could meet him and get to speak to him and asked him to pick me to take me to his friends wedding he put conditions to me by his torturing message stating that if I had to come to his friends wedding I will have to come and stay in his house for 2 days and later plan for future and said that if I did not come to stay in his house he would come with advocate to my house in a weeks time to close the relation …I was scared to go to his house because his parents never contacted me for all these 5 months and by his behavior and harassing and warning messages all these months I know that they would all trash me and give me warning or do something to me…inspite of that to keep his family respect and his respect I went to the wedding with my brother but my husband ignored looking at us and his parents did not come to wedding either. when we thought of meeting him in the wedding he vanished from that place . Am really not sure what I should do to ensure my husband understand my value and life a proper married life with me…pls suggest immediately
visiondreamindiaon 18th Feb 2015, 11:52am | Permalink
Hi,
You eaducated womens, working and having your own house and i know in love we forget everything but friend please come out of the dream, he doesn't love you, he is just playing with your sentiments and as he knows you love and will not leave him, he is doing whatever he wants.I can just say get release from such a man, love never tortures or gives pain you and all the girls should understand this. Love is care and pur it will never like to hurt someone he/she loves.
And in your case it is clear he was after you as you ignored him and when you agreed he felt satisfied such people are psycho's and actually no love exists for such people.
Take care and live a life full of wisdom, take wise decisions, not easy many times i understand but until the girls start becoming strong mentally these things will go and on......................You are a smart women so make smart decision.
i am working for hbl since some days one person is troubling me he is krishna of a house keeping services.he owns this company.he is abusing me and torturing me .he is saying if i dont respond to him he will punish me badlymy parents are very poor and bcos of which i work.its becoming difficult to go to office.i cannot say my name bocs he threatened me if i take help of anyone
visiondreamindiaon 18th Feb 2015, 10:58am | Permalink
Dear Saroja,
When somebody threatens you and you get scared that is the winning point.When you are not wrong there is no need to get scared and i understand you are poor and you need job tell anyone of your friend in your office like any girl who can capture this behaviour on phone or please approach police, but i am not sure how many get justice from police. Look out for another job side by side though running away is not the solution but I know your situation is troublesome.
take care
d srinivasa raoon 4th Jul 2013, 1:26am | Permalink
RESPECTED SIR/MADAM ON 27.06.2012 MY DAUGHETER DV MANASA & K SAMENDER GOT MARRIED (LOVE MARRIAGE) IN ONE OF THE ARYA SAMAJ AT HYDERABAD. TILL TODAY THEY HAVE NOT SHOWN THEIR MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE. NOW FOR WANT OF DOWRY HE AND HIS PARENTS ARE GIVING TROUBLE TO MY DAUGHTER. RECENTLY THEY HAVE CHANGED THEIR HOUSE TO BALANAGAR (VERY FEW DAYS BACK). HENCE WE DON’T KNOW THEIR ADDRESS. WE ARE AT NELLORE. WE KNOW ONLY THEIR PHONE NOs. THAT BASTERED NO.9948348251 & MY DAUGHETER MANASA NOs.7382242504 & 9949479734. KINDLY DO SOME FAVOUR AND HELP MY DAUGHTER.
visiondreamindiaon 18th Feb 2015, 11:06am | Permalink
Dear Mam, Today i came to this site just by chance as i wanted to help one of the women came from somewhere and roaming here on the roads.But i couldn't find any NGO picking up the phone and also the womens police station when i called said they don't give womens help.
Anyways i feel bad for your daughter, i will suggest all the parents dont marry your daughter to any such guy who demands for money, I am not from a telugu family. but being in AP i have understood the family who has sons are very shameless people when they sell their sons sorry pets and they should understand they also might be having daughters.I have seen lots of castesism is AP shame again when I came here I felt Hi-tech city, MBA' engineers,MCA's ,doctors they have educated themselves only to earn money by selling themselves ,I think the AP men are not capable enough to bring up their own house and family ,will not like to generalise as there are few who are good people but that number is very small.
I am not sure anybody,saw your post in last 3 years but you should have apporched police.Make your daughter independent let her study and work, and she will get the right person.Don't go after matching caste and family richness and educated boys but search for a good soul for your daughter.
Please call 9978945984 as he is torturing his wife mentally. Also hanging around a gal half his age after having 2 kids from his wife. My request is as his wife is based at Hyderabad, he should not be able to trace that the number that he is being called is from Hyderabad. As the torture might increase further. I want him to be severely warned that he mend his ways immediately, The number mentioned above is Gujarat number. Please let him not know that the call he received is from Hyderabad. I am requesting on behalf of my friend.
hi.......... iam facing a severe problem a guy proposed me who is my neighbour first i ignored him...after some days i started loving him he is very caring and loves me a lot but later on he started harrasing me about sex and money i cnt even share my problem with my mother.... i jst started avoiding him slowly....but he started giving calls to my home at odd hours. then i shared all my problems with my family...they called him and warned him very seriously.... now he is making calls and scaring me that he will update my photos in fb.... i jst compltd my btech.and i want to study the higher studies..but he is scaring me dat he will kill me and my mother too.... i dnt knw what to do...and iam scared to complaint in the police station as he has full political support and am also scared that they will support him and the only solution i got to my problem is my death please help
helo mam this numbers 9030408151,9492547628 this useless felow z calng me and i cant concerate on my studies plz help me if i say 2 my parents dey vil feel plz am begng u
want to share one thing with you all. when a girl got married then from the 1st day she is forced to change herself according to her in-laws . she is forced to eat , wear, behave just like in the way they want.. she has to listen against her parents sometimes. WHY ONLY A GIRL... in laws expect a lot from daughter in law but they do not respect that what she wants,.do you know there are many cases newly married girls commit suicide.. now just tell me what can gov. do in that case where she is not being tortured physically and she is not being asked to get dowry but only she is being given mentally tortures and in-laws are really very good family in the eye of society.... should that girl tell every thing to the parents???? what can she do to make her life better.
Block the number using a blocking feature on your phone if you have one. Else, ask a male member of the family (preferably brother) or a male friend to answer the phone and talk firmly. Don't answer the phone yourself.
Today morning my wife board a Goverment bus 226 it was going upto hydernagar and she was unaware of this that it was going upto hydernagar.the conductor asked for ticket she said for Chandanagar, the cond said its upto hydernagar and you have to take the ticket.she said ok stop the bus i will get down, then the cond started abusing him and forced her to take ticket and when she started to oppose it that guy hold her hand and tried to slap her.she got down the bus.First thing she did called 100 around 5 times nobody picked up and then even i tried the 1091 said the no is wrong.it was morning 7:50 am.Now tell me how our country can be safe when the emergency no even don't work.How a women can feel safe.
hiii i am urging u to help me out of this problem.A guy msg me oneday and i made a friendship with him and later on he proposed me.Initially he was good taking care n all.Later on i came to know what type of bastard he was.and he wants only sex from me and harassing me so much.so i told him to stop our relation.he wants to sleep me with him for once and after that he said that i will leave you..i said i dont like that type of relation and stop our relation.but he is scaring me that i have proofs and he is telling that i will not leave you and u will suffer lifelong . i don't know what to do and i want to die if i think what will happen if my parents know about this.please help me how to get rid of this situation.
hii, i dunno who is the admin of this page...but i am urging u to help me out of this problem..during my college days i fell in love with a guy. Initially he was good taking care n all. Later on i came to know what type of bastard he was. We both had a discsn n dcided to stop our relatn. Everything was fine later on i am into an MNC now and njoying a happy life. I was engaged recently. Now he started a fake fb account on my name and added all my frnds and started abusing them. he also started to harras n torture me. he is leaving me msgs in fb saying that he would upload my pics which were with him during our relatn. he is also on a black mail so dat he would tell everything to my husband n parents. i feel like dying but my parents i am only one for them. unable to live n unable to die. plz help me out of this situation.
Hi Nidhi, then its better take ur parents in to confidence.. remember they are parents they may scold u for once but they care for u and ur life will get better.... U may feel i might be giving u the age old solution but this the BEST u have...
I am Ranjit. One of my neighbour is living in hyderabad and she is a housewife. One stranger, said his name is Ram prasad, working for google in Hyderabad.His number is 8008207792, getting continous calls frm dis number , harrasing to come and sleep her. its like hell torture ,, kindly some one help me out .. and to the end of this bastard.