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by daisy » Tue Nov 16, 2004 8:32 pm

Teaser wrote:Hey girls , jus tell me what sense it makes to carry ur maiden name and ur husbands family all together ..2 Tease




no problem with that either. but dont you think it gets too long :lol:

besides i want to feel married :wink:

i think it gives a sense of belongingness and again i am no expert but this is my opinion :)
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by Igiveadamn » Tue Nov 16, 2004 8:34 pm

daisy wrote:
Teaser wrote:Hey girls , jus tell me what sense it makes to carry ur maiden name and ur husbands family all together ..2 Tease


no problem with that either. but dont you think it gets too long :lol:
besides i want to feel married :wink:
i think it gives a sense of belongingness and again i am no expert but this is my opinion :)
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by daisy » Tue Nov 16, 2004 8:38 pm

Igiveadamn wrote:I rest my case your honour.




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by Habitual Perfectionist » Wed Nov 17, 2004 4:05 am

Daisy...you hit the nail right on the head........Its all a matter of personal convenience and choices. Period
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by aquarian81 » Wed Nov 17, 2004 6:16 am

Im not too sure about the femenists theory here, but in the case that I marry someone with a different last name, then I would just add a hyphen and then his last name. Simple.



Im just proud to carry my last name, since we are direct descendents of a prominent religious figure.
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by marko » Wed Nov 17, 2004 9:40 am

igiveadamn wrote:Is it just to prove that they are better than males?




no, it is to prove they are equal. if they tried to force you to accept their family name then it would be to prove they were better. Surely it would be better if either both people had double last names (with the last names in alphabetical order :P ) or else not bother changing the thing at all?

also, since women are ultimately the ones that nurture and care for the family as a whole (in most cases) shouldnt the family name past down the female side? That way, after divorce, there is no confusing (and possible multiple) change of surname for the children (assuming again they stay with the mother, as is most common)
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by CtrlAltDel » Wed Nov 17, 2004 10:58 am

aquarian81 wrote:Im just proud to carry my last name, since we are direct descendents of a prominent religious figure.
wow! who was that religious figure? Noah? Abraham? Moses? the Prophet himself?
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by malakpetmasala » Wed Nov 17, 2004 11:20 am

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aquarian81 wrote:Im just proud to carry my last name, since we are direct descendents of a prominent religious figure.
wow! who was that religious figure? Noah? Abraham? Moses? the Prophet himself?




Agha Khan? Osama bin laden? :D
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by CtrlAltDel » Wed Nov 17, 2004 12:01 pm

malakpetmasala wrote:
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aquarian81 wrote:Im just proud to carry my last name, since we are direct descendents of a prominent religious figure.
wow! who was that religious figure? Noah? Abraham? Moses? the Prophet himself?
Agha Khan? Osama bin laden? :D
since when did Osama become a religious figure....:roll:



anyway he's too young to be an ancestor to anyone here...
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by malakpetmasala » Wed Nov 17, 2004 12:10 pm

CtrlAltDel wrote:
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aquarian81 wrote:Im just proud to carry my last name, since we are direct descendents of a prominent religious figure.
wow! who was that religious figure? Noah? Abraham? Moses? the Prophet himself?
Agha Khan? Osama bin laden? :D
since when did Osama become a religious figure....:roll:

anyway he's too young to be an ancestor to anyone here...




well... if not today, may be centuries down the lane, he would be looked up as the saviour, the man who stood for Islam against the invasion of the corrupt western culture into the minds of the innocent.

just needs some time.
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by solosynergy » Wed Nov 17, 2004 1:54 pm

let the names of the husband and wife be there be there in both the name of the husband and wife so both the names pass down to the next generation. multiple inheritance :D
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by Lucifer » Wed Nov 17, 2004 7:32 pm

I thought I should clear the air up a bit. Most people seem to think that it is a big legal hassle if the wife adopts her husband's name after marriage. It is NOT. It is an automatic thing, no questions asked and no documentation required, even to change names on things like passports and bank accounts. The only place where the maiden name still holds is on tax returns.
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by CtrlAltDel » Thu Nov 18, 2004 10:26 am

Luci's right. there is no need to change name in every certificate or document the wife possesses. if questioned, a copy of the marriage certificate is sufficient.
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by Aquarian81 » Fri Nov 19, 2004 7:42 am

CtrlAltDel wrote:
aquarian81 wrote:Im just proud to carry my last name, since we are direct descendents of a prominent religious figure.
wow! who was that religious figure? Noah? Abraham? Moses? the Prophet himself?






Maybe if we trace it back that far, but I would very so honored if the above were true CAD :)

Actually, the correct answer is Mahdi-al-Maud.
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by malakpetmasala » Fri Nov 19, 2004 8:19 am

Aquarian81 wrote:
CtrlAltDel wrote:
aquarian81 wrote:Im just proud to carry my last name, since we are direct descendents of a prominent religious figure.
wow! who was that religious figure? Noah? Abraham? Moses? the Prophet himself?



Maybe if we trace it back that far, but I would very so honored if the above were true CAD :)
Actually, the correct answer is Mahdi-al-Maud.




And who is Mahdi-al-Maud?
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by lonewolf » Fri Nov 19, 2004 9:48 am

malakpetmasala wrote:
Aquarian81 wrote:
CtrlAltDel wrote:
aquarian81 wrote:Im just proud to carry my last name, since we are direct descendents of a prominent religious figure.
wow! who was that religious figure? Noah? Abraham? Moses? the Prophet himself?



Maybe if we trace it back that far, but I would very so honored if the above were true CAD :)
Actually, the correct answer is Mahdi-al-Maud.


And who is Mahdi-al-Maud?




malakpetmasala, how do you always ask the questions I want to ask? :D Can you find out what I am about to type? ;)
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by solosynergy » Fri Nov 19, 2004 10:37 am

lonewolf wrote:
malakpetmasala wrote:
Aquarian81 wrote:
CtrlAltDel wrote:
aquarian81 wrote:Im just proud to carry my last name, since we are direct descendents of a prominent religious figure.
wow! who was that religious figure? Noah? Abraham? Moses? the Prophet himself?



Maybe if we trace it back that far, but I would very so honored if the above were true CAD :)
Actually, the correct answer is Mahdi-al-Maud.


And who is Mahdi-al-Maud?


malakpetmasala, how do you always ask the questions I want to ask? :D Can you find out what I am about to type? ;)




ah u two got something goin on :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
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by malakpetmasala » Fri Nov 19, 2004 11:19 am

solosynergy wrote:
lonewolf wrote:
malakpetmasala wrote:
Aquarian81 wrote:
CtrlAltDel wrote:
aquarian81 wrote:Im just proud to carry my last name, since we are direct descendents of a prominent religious figure.
wow! who was that religious figure? Noah? Abraham? Moses? the Prophet himself?



Maybe if we trace it back that far, but I would very so honored if the above were true CAD :)
Actually, the correct answer is Mahdi-al-Maud.


And who is Mahdi-al-Maud?


malakpetmasala, how do you always ask the questions I want to ask? :D Can you find out what I am about to type? ;)


ah u two got something goin on :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:




guess we are two people who think alike.
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by CtrlAltDel » Fri Nov 19, 2004 12:05 pm

malakpetmasala wrote:
Aquarian81 wrote:
CtrlAltDel wrote:
aquarian81 wrote:Im just proud to carry my last name, since we are direct descendents of a prominent religious figure.
wow! who was that religious figure? Noah? Abraham? Moses? the Prophet himself?
Maybe if we trace it back that far, but I would very so honored if the above were true CAD :)
Actually, the correct answer is Mahdi-al-Maud.
And who is Mahdi-al-Maud?
i remember now! he was the founder of the sect Aqua belongs to.....there was a discussion on this when ppl started discovering long lost cousins in these boards...;)
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by lonewolf » Fri Nov 19, 2004 12:10 pm

malakpetmasala wrote:guess we are two people who think alike.




Yup... great minds think alike :)



And solosynergy, dirty minds think otherwise ;)[/url]
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by lonewolf » Fri Nov 19, 2004 12:14 pm

CtrlAltDel wrote:he was the founder of the sect Aqua belongs to.....there was a discussion on this when ppl started discovering long lost cousins in these boards...;)




So there are at least three persons in this forum whose last names end in Mahdi-al-Maud... The name sounds too Arabic.
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by Reality,,its here.Accept it. » Fri Nov 19, 2004 12:23 pm

I was wondering how many people here on the boards have an attachment to their last names. I mean, how many of you would not change it even if you were asked to?
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by CtrlAltDel » Fri Nov 19, 2004 1:05 pm

well...my community has no tradition of a last name....so my so-called "last name" is actually my dad's first name. my son's last name is my first name.
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by Aquarian81 » Fri Nov 19, 2004 8:13 pm

lonewolf wrote:
CtrlAltDel wrote:he was the founder of the sect Aqua belongs to.....there was a discussion on this when ppl started discovering long lost cousins in these boards...;)


So there are at least three persons in this forum whose last names end in Mahdi-al-Maud... The name sounds too Arabic.






No, its a short version. You probably heard it countless times living in India and all. Actually our last name doesnt sound at all Arabic, sounds more spanish.
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by CtrlAltDel » Fri Nov 19, 2004 9:17 pm

Aquarian81 wrote:
lonewolf wrote:
CtrlAltDel wrote:he was the founder of the sect Aqua belongs to.....there was a discussion on this when ppl started discovering long lost cousins in these boards...;)

So there are at least three persons in this forum whose last names end in Mahdi-al-Maud... The name sounds too Arabic.
No, its a short version. You probably heard it countless times living in India and all. Actually our last name doesnt sound at all Arabic, sounds more spanish.
A classmate in high school had that as his first name....
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