Can men and women be just friends?

[black wizard]

Yes they can

No offence, but which planet do these guys come from anyway? 'Yes, they can'? Really, why did these spammers put in so much effort anyway?

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[BLACK WIZARD]

Yes they can

No offence, but which planet do these guys come from anyway? 'Yes, they can'? Really, why did these spammers put in so much effort anyway?

L

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[black wizard]

Yes they can

No offence, but which planet do these guys come from anyway? 'Yes, they can'? Really, why did these spammers put in so much effort anyway?

L

O

L

[black wizard]

Yes they can

No offence, but which planet do these guys come from anyway? 'Yes, they can'? Really, why did these spammers put in so much effort anyway?

L

O

L

[wine-music-this-rundown-corner]

I'd be curious to know how are we progressing here?

[wine-music-this-rundown-corner]

Oh, well thats too bad for you. But its better you got rid of her sooner than later. Obviously you werent too attached to her.
A woman has the prerogative to change her mind----but not so viciously.

But for what it was worth, I hope she and your brother are still going strong.

Interesting sequence of incidents from you both..

But do you think that this is the way of life..I mean i'd like to see these as odd occurances..BTW I'm a born optimist!!



tell me what percentage of guys / girls that you have been closely associated made your life bitter..?



If the answer is all - something is wrong with you !

If the answer is some - therez a scope of further discussions!!

If the answer is none - this board should be closed long before

[Alexis]

For the record, Im a true optimist too The glass is always half full.



Of the relationships Ive had, there are 2 guys I have daggers for. Now Im a very forgiving and understanding person, but the things theyve done and the things theyve tried to do almost gave me a nervous breakdown. They made my life extremely bitter.



But anything that doesnt kill you, only makes you stronger. I firmly believe in that. And Ive moved on since then.



I havent forgiven either of them, and I dont think I ever will. Although I believe that you shouldnt hold a grudge for too long. Those 2 will have to be exceptions to that rule.

[CtrlAltDel]

Of the relationships Ive had, there are 2 guys I have daggers for.

luckily for me, all my EXes parted as friends n some of them r still in touch...

But anything that doesnt kill you, only makes you stronger. I firmly believe in that. And Ive moved on since then.

thats a great philosohy to follow Alexis...never change that attitude...

I havent forgiven either of them, and I dont think I ever will.

my...my...u musta suffered a lot with them Alexis..but still that does not mean u carry such hatered thru out yr life. unless they bother u again, be easy on yrself by forgiving them...or forgetting them. if u still HATE them, what benefit does it carry? anyway u wont get or use any chance to take the hatred all out on them by, say, murder...

[wine-music-this-rundown-corner]

For the record, Im a true optimist too The glass is always half full.

Way to go..Now that makes it fine with most of the guys / girls around..

They made my life extremely bitter.

I'm sorry for that..but as you said it made you smarter, stronger and probably wiser..Guess the world should not suffer 'coz of a coupla quacks..

Those 2 will have to be exceptions to that rule.

Time heals most of them..I have started talking to people who have irrepairably damaged even the cause of a tiny smile in my face..

[Alexis]

CAD, yeah I did suffer cuz of them. But theyre history. I havent forgiven them, but Ive definitely forgotten them. I mean, I dont think about them and depress myself over what happened in my past. I moved on a long time ago.



Wine, yeah Im a lot wiser now......and a lot less naive.

[wine-music-this-rundown-corner]

Wine, yeah Im a lot wiser now......and a lot less naive.

Lessons learned on the way..I'm sure your past would'nt stand in between your current / future relationships..Or do they..



Next time you talk to someone or get close to someone..would doubt him to be a ditcher..!!?? i'm sure u'd be careful....but..

[akhilis2cool]

bahut ho gaya now plz....killl thisssss threadddddd

[Lucifer]

bahut ho gaya now plz....killl thisssss threadddddd

How do you kill a thread?

[akhilis2cool]

i dont know.....



i guess v can lock it.....but never done that before.



may be some one can help......helllpf.....helllphh

[Alexis]

Wine, yeah Im a lot wiser now......and a lot less naive.

Lessons learned on the way..I'm sure your past would'nt stand in between your current / future relationships..Or do they..

Next time you talk to someone or get close to someone..would doubt him to be a ditcher..!!?? i'm sure u'd be careful....but..

Yeah, well you learn some lessons when something bad happens. My past hasnt effected me nagatively in my relationships.

And those 2 guys didnt ditch me, I dumped them cuz of whatever had happened.

[wine-music-this-rundown-corner]

[quote="Alexis]

And those 2 guys didnt ditch me, I dumped them cuz of whatever had happened.[/quote]



Oops... Guess I clicked the wrong button there



I tend to think that every relationship teaches you something or the other...



It really does..good or bad...



They might not probably affect your basic nature..but they do present you with options as life progresses...

[Alexis]

LOL! You didnt hit a wrong button! I just wanted you to know that I wasnt heartbroken or anything because those guys decided to break up with me.

In any relationship Ive had, I was usually the one to call it off......for whatever reason.

[Habitual Perfectionist]

Calling it off is painful...isn't it? the duration varies...but the pain is there in any relation breaking up.

[Alexis]

A break up does pull at your heart-strings, but its for the greater good. If you think that way, its easier for you to get over it and move on.

Seriously, theres no sense in being with someone you are not completely satisfied with.

[Habitual Perfectionist]

A break up does pull at your heart-strings, but its for the greater good. If you think that way, its easier for you to get over it and move on.
Seriously, theres no sense in being with someone you are not completely satisfied with.

Agreed...you're talking to a veteran here.

[Alexis]

So have you found Juliet yet, HP?

[CtrlAltDel]

i had enuf heart-tugging breakups to last a life time... but in my case thankfully i always parted as a friend...no bad memories. the moment of break up is always painful but u have to move on quickly and realise that 'talaab mein aur bhi machliyaan hai'!

after each breakup, i still remained friends with the girls n even got invited to some of their weddings...where they always introduced me to their hubbies as a 'special friend' (and i'll usually be trying hard not to laff at the poor guy!)

oh boy...those were the golden days...*slips into a dreamy trance*

[Habitual Perfectionist]

i had enuf heart-tugging breakups to last a life time... but in my case thankfully i always parted as a friend...no bad memories. the moment of break up is always painful but u have to move on quickly and realise that 'talaab mein aur bhi machliyaan hai'!
after each breakup, i still remained friends with the girls n even got invited to some of their weddings...where they always introduced me to their hubbies as a 'special friend' (and i'll usually be trying hard not to laff at the poor guy!)
oh boy...those were the golden days...*slips into a dreamy trance*

ME TOO



ME TOO



ME TOO

[wine-music-this-rundown-corner]

LOL! You didnt hit a wrong button! I just wanted you to know that I wasnt heartbroken or anything because those guys decided to break up with me.
In any relationship Ive had, I was usually the one to call it off......for whatever reason.

So you call the shots..huh?



Is there a concept of complete satisfaction? Well there might be..But then are we all lucky enuff..?



My dictionary do refer to the word 'compormise' as long it doesn't mean you getting away from the real you..its a thin line..but still..there is that line!!



As CAD says since you have so much of options gues you can alwayz turn around and say why shud I settle for less!!??







I've never had a completely broken relationship..!!! So hard to know

[Alexis]

LOL! You didnt hit a wrong button! I just wanted you to know that I wasnt heartbroken or anything because those guys decided to break up with me.
In any relationship Ive had, I was usually the one to call it off......for whatever reason.

So you call the shots..huh?

Is there a concept of complete satisfaction? Well there might be..But then are we all lucky enuff..?

My dictionary do refer to the word 'compormise' as long it doesn't mean you getting away from the real you..its a thin line..but still..there is that line!!

As CAD says since you have so much of options gues you can alwayz turn around and say why shud I settle for less!!??



I've never had a completely broken relationship..!!! So hard to know

I dont call the shots. Im not on any power trip. Its just that when things took an ugly turn in my relationships, I had to put my foot down. Im not a typical bhartiya nari who'll take any crap from her man. I know I can stand up to them and fight for whats right. And I did. And Im a much happier and stronger person today.