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whom will u prioritize first..ur JOB or LOVE

by uzma » Mon May 24, 2004 6:27 pm

for men.................. will you give more importance to your job....or loose the women u love....in a situation????

For women............will you stick to your job , and loose the man you love....if need be...???

What will YOU..prefer???

:roll: :roll: :roll: :shock: :shock:
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Re: whom will u prioritize first..ur JOB or LOVE

by Xiaowind » Mon May 24, 2004 6:41 pm

uzma wrote:for men.................. will you give more importance to your job....or loose the women u love....in a situation????
For women............will you stick to your job , and loose the man you love....if need be...???
What will YOU..prefer???
:roll: :roll: :roll: :shock: :shock:




I've already given up a good job because my wife insisted to stay in the city now we lives in... :cry:
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by Yuva » Mon May 24, 2004 7:19 pm

i dont think that situation can arise if u have a good understanding ... if u r in a relation then thats enough to resolve the issue ... there r many cases where GUY or a GAL leaves his/her job for the loved ... soit really dosen matter .. it all about compromise :P
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by azazel » Mon May 24, 2004 9:13 pm

Yuva wrote:i dont think that situation can arise if u have a good understanding ... if u r in a relation then thats enough to resolve the issue ... there r many cases where GUY or a GAL leaves his/her job for the loved ... soit really dosen matter .. it all about compromise :P




i think the Q was, what would U do ??
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by BM » Mon May 24, 2004 10:00 pm

Aaj kei dor mei JOB hei toh LOVE hei werna kuch bhi nahi hei na JOB na LOVE :roll:
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Re: whom will u prioritize first..ur JOB or LOVE

by CtrlAltDel » Mon May 24, 2004 10:16 pm

uzma wrote:for men.................. will you give more importance to your job....or loose the women u love....in a situation????
For women............will you stick to your job , and loose the man you love....if need be...???What will YOU..prefer???
hey uzma...welcome back...long time no see!

abt what i prefer....lemme consult my wife first n get back to u... :lol:
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by Habitual Perfectionist » Mon May 24, 2004 11:14 pm

What would I do?????





After a very short thought, I've come to the conclusion that getting another wife is easy...getting a job isn't.



:twisted:



But on a serious note, though a job is important, I would always go for wifey IF I had to make a choice.
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by ZC » Tue May 25, 2004 8:31 am

SEX............option 3 :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :roll: :roll:
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by akhilis2cool » Tue May 25, 2004 9:40 am

situation aane do phir sonchenge :P
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by Imran » Tue May 25, 2004 11:07 am

hmmm...interestin Q ...well ! Love doesnt give u anythin ...but Job can pay u Handsome bucks :wink: :lol:
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by mysterious babe » Tue May 25, 2004 11:58 am

what if u leave ur job for the person u love and then that person leaves u.............just thinking.......... :P
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by akhilis2cool » Tue May 25, 2004 1:01 pm

mysterious babe wrote:what if u leave ur job for the person u love and then that person leaves u.............just thinking.......... :P


then there would be another devdas
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by BM » Tue May 25, 2004 1:14 pm

Imran wrote:hmmm...interestin Q ...well ! Love doesnt give u anythin ...but Job can pay u Handsome bucks :wink: :lol:




And if you get Handsome bucks you will find Love :wink:
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Re: whom will u prioritize first..ur JOB or LOVE

by Cowboy » Tue May 25, 2004 1:15 pm

uzma wrote:for men.................. will you give more importance to your job....or loose the women u love....in a situation????




depends...she hot?
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by uzma » Tue May 25, 2004 3:46 pm

Hi CAD...what did ur wife say??? :?: :o ..





hey...Cowboy....how abut ur job being HOT....also..!!!then???



Mysterious babe ..u r right.......ITS most possiable......



My friend Lata...says..which i quote....:"In the real world ..most of us will stick to JOB........if u have job ...u have money...u can have wife/ GF...husband/BF...or else....no job,no money, no relationship will survive"



she is true in many sence....
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by ZC » Tue May 25, 2004 3:49 pm

ditch the girl....

take the job.....

find a new gal



ur on bench........

ur job then outsourced to low-cost bihar.....



u lost job.........



ladki-bhi gayi........



and the cycle continues..........believe in live-in relation-ship... :roll: :roll: :roll:
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by BM » Tue May 25, 2004 3:50 pm

uzma wrote:Hi CAD...what did ur wife say??? :?: :o ..


hey...Cowboy....how abut ur job being HOT....also..!!!then???

Mysterious babe ..u r right.......ITS most possiable......

My friend Lata...says..which i quote....:"In the real world ..most of us will stick to JOB........if u have job ...u have money...u can have wife/ GF...husband/BF...or else....no job,no money, no relationship will survive"

she is true in many sence....




I am also telling the same thing, see my post :P
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by CtrlAltDel » Tue May 25, 2004 3:51 pm

uzma wrote:Hi CAD...what did ur wife say??? :?: :o ..
she just gave me a cold glare...:(

uzma wrote:"In the real world ..most of us will stick to JOB........if u have job ...u have money...u can have wife/ GF...husband/BF...or else....no job,no money, no relationship will survive"
this is true only if u dont have a spouse/lover yet. what if u already have one, and then u get a HOT job offer...?
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Wat A Senti Ques..

by Maverick Rocks...!!! » Tue May 25, 2004 4:15 pm



hey ppl... :P wat a emotional & senti ques. is this...anywayz...itz really pertinent query..!

:D

nevertheless, if the Love is "REAL & HONEST" ...as in..not those-filmi types...then1 can leave job..coz u can find new job...but Real Love is Rarest of Rarest Commodity pals...! wat say u....shoot me mail at...maevrick_guy_007 at yahoo.co.uk....cheerio...chill pill junta...! :twisted:
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by xiaowind » Tue May 25, 2004 6:51 pm

mysterious babe wrote:what if u leave ur job for the person u love and then that person leaves u.............just thinking.......... :P




Before leave your job, make sure that she/he would not leave you... at least for a long time. :D



For me, the principle is: don't give up good job for your girl friend, do that after she have been your wife. :lol: :lol:
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by Cowboy » Tue May 25, 2004 8:33 pm

hey...Cowboy....how abut ur job being HOT....also..!!!then???

My friend Lata...says..which i quote....:"In the real world ..most of us will stick to JOB........if u have job ...u have money...u can have wife/ GF...husband/BF...or else....no job,no money, no relationship will survive"

she is true in many sence....




HOT job as in me being the CEO of a fortune 500 MNC? I think I'll keep my job.

HOT chick as in Laetitia Casta, screw the job, I'll go for LC.



On a serious note, I'll keep my job. Not just because of "no job-no money-no relationship". I enjoy my work(playing with computers) and I don't think I can give it up for a relationship.
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by Cowboy » Tue May 25, 2004 8:40 pm

mysterious babe wrote:what if u leave ur job for the person u love and then that person leaves u.............just thinking.......... :P




Don't leave your job. Get a long-leave :D
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by asli_badmash » Tue May 25, 2004 9:39 pm

I would certianly go for the job... whatever be the case.



The logic is very simple. With that great job in hand you would be able to better serve "her highness". And I am sure... every girl likes to be treated like one.



I I were involved with a girl and If I were to land a dream job... and if the situation would arise that I have to loose the job or the girl.. This is how I would pitch my case: Sweetie... We both know we would do better If I take this job. I mean, imagine all the things we could do. Before you dump me for some duffer.. consider these points...



The extra money that this job would bring in hand will help us



- build a house, buy a car, live comfortably.

- give our kids a good life.

- we can finally afford to treat your parents and my parents to a well deserved holiday.

- We can make progress in life, dont you want me to be successfull in life.

- Look at the big picture.. we might struggle initially.. but we will reap the benefits later..



I mean.. why do men want to work hard. so they can keep the person in their life happy... right and sometimes you have to make little sacrifices keeping the bigger picture in mind.



I dont think women are so fickle that If you get a job that would take up more of your time they would jump ship... If you love her truly and she loves you back. It can be worked out.. But my suggestion... guys (and gals too) definetly go for the JOB.



Finally I will leave you with these thoughts

- "Bhuke pait(stomach) mohabbat nahin hoti".

- "Jab jaib(pocket) mein ho rakam to na lage dil pe zakham".



You can keep the lady and the job only if you know how to put the peices togather... Its all in your hands..



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Re: ...

by BM » Tue May 25, 2004 9:43 pm

asli_badmash wrote:Finally I will leave you with these thoughts
- "Bhuke pait(stomach) mohabbat nahin hoti".
- "Jab jaib(pocket) mein ho rakam to na lage dil pe zakham".
~badmash~




Agreed.
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by azazel » Wed May 26, 2004 12:52 am

asli_badmash wrote:"Jab jaib mein ho rakam to na lage dil pe zakham"




:lol: .. so true
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