Arranged Marriage...what a mess

[Happy Hyderabadi]

Happy Hyderabadi:
aaadab/AOA/ namaste/hello Janab/huzur/sir/babu/ayya, you are using so many abbreviations that sometimes its difficult to understand what you are saying and the humor is also lost sometimes due to that.

MM ... why state the obvious ... A for Arranged ...

Now, HP is to honour / humour / hide the "Henpeck" ...

Greetings!

[mithr]

guys i was just browsing through this topic. let me share my experiacne on this topic. i have come across an arranged marriage which has ruined 2 families and r still suffering. girl is from hyd and the guy from abroad both liked each other in first sight got married in 1 month. after that girl went abroad , stayed for 3 months and came back and not willing to go back. reasons citd are non-compatibility, non satisfaction , ex-friends of her who have spoiled her mind (guys) saying her they will take care of her if she leaves her husband. this girl is not going back now and for her, her husband if suffering his family, the girls family are all suffering, praying day and night. this girl become stubborn, threatening everybody who ever comes to tell her to go back. i have never come across such misery in life. this marriage has ruined so many for the fantacy of this girl who just walked into marriage without any commitment. frinds who ever are reading this topic, please be good to ur friends who are married, never try to spoil the relation between wife and husband and always try to reconcile , because a marriage can make or break. the families are still suffering and waiting for the god to act on this girl...



this is a very tragic sorrow in our own hyd. so lets be very sure in an arranged marriage by fully knowing the other person. this i m sharing with u all as i dont want any such suffering .. due to arranged marriage

[Inspi]

Either its AM or LM Love LOVE , TRUST and FAITH should be there and each other should understand.



Dont expect to understand a woman\girl just after knowing her or speaking to her ..and agian when looking for AM parents look into many things other than just hte girl..like family back ground,society ,caste,education,charecter (for both guyz n galz) and then go for a match or "Pelli Choopulu" so they better know what to do for us..

well ours is still conservative society so got to go according to it..(not always necessary )

well and if u Love someone dont take a step so that u got to be alone love is not a crime ..do not go against someone coz remember there is someone else loving us,so better try convince so that life is happy coz marriage is just the start and therez a long way to go.