Mama's Boy

by **DilBroke** » Fri Feb 20, 2004 1:50 am

What is the problem of Andhra boys with their moms?

I like this person but everytime I call and his parents are around, he says that he will call back. This is his cell, too!

What is he afraid of? Its not like we are in a relationship.

And I have guy-friends: they are North Indian and they are cool.

What's with the Southies?

by **Mayavi Morpheus** » Fri Feb 20, 2004 2:07 am

If you like North Indians then stick with them, why bother abt southies :wink:

Anyway, to me it seems he is avoiding you.

by **CtrlAltDel** » Fri Feb 20, 2004 10:03 am

DilBroke ji....

dont you feel that guy is purposefully not answering your calls promptly? wake up baby...he does not like you!

by **Zorro** » Fri Feb 20, 2004 10:07 am

DilBroke wrote:What is the problem of Andhra boys with their moms?
I like this person but everytime I call and his parents are around, he says that he will call back. This is his cell, too!
What is he afraid of? Its not like we are in a relationship.
And I have guy-friends: they are North Indian and they are cool.
What's with the Southies?

May be that u havnt met the right kinda guy....

U cant generalize based on a single incident mam....

I can tell you an incident that happened with me...but thats kinda personal......

All Indians are kewl...provided u know kool part

...

tnx for providing "You have a dictionary with word impossible"

by **Monster** » Fri Feb 20, 2004 4:03 pm

DilBroke, you're very correct in your observation that south guys never take the initiative. The reason for that is that they don't have to. They're ultra attractive, what with their intelligence, charm and all, that they have to keep fending off pesky women constantly

.

But seriously, as someone already said, it's unfair to generalise incidents like this.

by **a southie female** » Fri Feb 20, 2004 7:23 pm

Oh, well, my Men have always been MEN.

Be it my father, my grandfathers, my brothers, my uncles and bils and friends (including my boyfriends) and neighbors and.. except for some northies who are too uptight and think no end of themselves just coz they are from North ! Go get some life dude, with somebody who may think that you are worth to take the call from, instead of posting such polls !!

being in hyderabad, that too !!

HA ! The Temerity !

by **DilBroke** » Fri Feb 20, 2004 9:22 pm

Funny, how everyGUY defends the Southie character! You guys make it seem that I deliberately set out to undermine your male society!

I think you guys might have a point that he is avoiding me but I know he talks to me because he likes me [it was one of those friends spilling his secret crush on me thing]! Of course, I haven't confronted him on it, but maybe he thinks I am on to him?! Hmph...

I maybe 'generalizing' based on personal experience but seriously the South guys I hang with...

And that comment on 'cool', I wasn't trying to make North guys seem better. Just comparing different cultures.

As for posting that poll, I was just mf frustrated.

by **JustaLittleUnwell** » Fri Feb 20, 2004 10:52 pm

Heartbroken 1, you are entitled to your opinion and I respect it. I wish I could give some sound tip, but being a Southie guy myself (with mama n all that baggage) I doubt if I could.

Nice North-South debate shaping up here that would put any Hindu-Muslim debate to shame :) For me, the only good thing that happened from that confounded visit to Marredpally was my decision to dine at nearby Singh's (MG Rd) - one of the few authentic Northie restaurants in Hyd. The others being Hotel Agrawala in Abids, and..... anything else? I dunno about Northie men and women, but the food rocked esp. since 'Wreakage' didn't :). Wondering if 'food' could be the great unifier of this country, since love couldn't be 1. I think i'm rambling on after a good meal :)

by **Mayavi Morpheus** » Fri Feb 20, 2004 11:29 pm

Yeah justa, I too dunno why ppl keep talking abt north and south as different countries. Broke even went to the extent of saying that cultures are different :roll:

I dunno abt food, but love will definitely unite the country :wink:

(read between lines.)

by **JustaLittleUnwell** » Sat Feb 21, 2004 12:15 am

Mayavi, yes, hearts can break, but not the country......

I'm somehow not bullish on love (even after reading between your lines ;) ) as a potential unifier. The problem with this country is the boys n gals never grow up and the resulting kid egos aren't enough to make love happen.

Given this, food appeared to be a viable alternative ;) In case you launch your Idly chain, you are likely to have a greater fan base among the Northies, while we Southies would keep ourselves busy at Singh's or Agrawala's.

by **the southie female** » Sat Feb 21, 2004 4:19 am

this aint nuthin to do with cultures from south /north/east/west ! it is defending this side of India and its men. Had a southie said sumthin simialr about northies, maybe I would have reacted similarly. Hey, guys I am an Indian and this is my India, man !!

by **Zorro** » Sat Feb 21, 2004 9:58 am

DilBroke wrote:Funny, how everyGUY defends the Southie character! You guys make it seem that I deliberately set out to undermine your male society!
I think you guys might have a point that he is avoiding me but I know he talks to me because he likes me [it was one of those friends spilling his secret crush on me thing]! Of course, I haven't confronted him on it, but maybe he thinks I am on to him?! Hmph...

I maybe 'generalizing' based on personal experience but seriously the South guys I hang with...

And that comment on 'cool', I wasn't trying to make North guys seem better. Just comparing different cultures.

As for posting that poll, I was just mf frustrated.

I donno whether u r dil broke or not but u r totally insane...

if u r in love with the southie ...go a head...n say it...

U might have understood the person much better if u called him home..

but i think think u understood him ....first understand him ...

whats this bull shit war on northies or southies.....

I really want 2 scold U ... sparin you coz u r already dil broke...take care mam(a)

by **Monster** » Sat Feb 21, 2004 6:25 pm

Unified India! Unified India! Unified India!

I can't think of any other way to do that, than to say it out loud many times. I agree with Just... that northies love dosas and southies dig butter paneer. Food will make for a great unifier. And i think love will, too. Despite what a person says in the agony on a painful heart break.

And Just... don't worry that Wrekage didn't rock, 'cos sledge will more than make-up for it tonite at OFD.

by **DilBroke** » Sat Feb 21, 2004 11:05 pm

When did this turn into a North/South WAR?

Wake up and smell the truth!

I was talking about my problem [and I thank everyone for advice] and I am sorry if I have offended anyone.

by **JustaLittleUnwell** » Sun Feb 22, 2004 1:26 am

Monster, yes they did make up for yesterday's dissapointment :) But man, I'm too drunk to even talk bout it :)

Dilbroke, if i'm not mistaken, it was you who turned a personal setback into a full blown north-south issue. If I remember right, some of your poll options were "Some of them (Southie males) are born stupid", "They (again Southie males) dont have brains when it comes to it" etc etc. If you like Southie males very much, listen to AR Rahman's music :) Let's peace out folks!

by **SBCN** » Sun Feb 22, 2004 5:42 pm

I'm a northy born and brought up in hyd ... now i'm confused which side i should be fighting from ... personally i think both can suck n both can be great ... just have to find the best of both worlds eh .

And just ..that idea abt food uniting india ..is bloody brilliant ... never thot of it ..kudoz !

by **the southie female** » Sun Feb 22, 2004 10:09 pm

For God's sakes look at the questions on the polls guys ! 'I' was enraged enuf to post a strong one against those polls and here some of you 'guys' say 'peace out' !!

:roll:

Its like 'hey..hey..hey please, you wanna have another cheek of mine? Its always there, hon! '

Oh, puh..lease..

even if the poll is from a southie girl.. u gonna take it ?! huh?

hey, northies, leave this one alone to these southie guys, k? u dont take it personal..

and if u r born in north/south/east/west and are brought up in south/north/east/west, good.. u r an Indian and just check with urself if u r what Dilbroke says 'southie men' are and if u arent , well, then u are a Man with good lot of pride in you for being a Man

by **semi** » Mon Feb 23, 2004 9:50 am

i disagree,

it depends on the kind of family the kid is affiliated to.

All my friends' parents, like mine, share a good rapport with their sons and daughters.

DilBroke wrote:What is the problem of Andhra boys with their moms?
I like this person but everytime I call and his parents are around, he says that he will call back. This is his cell, too!
What is he afraid of? Its not like we are in a relationship.
And I have guy-friends: they are North Indian and they are cool.
What's with the Southies?

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