Who is the loser? The boy or the girl?

by **Aparna** » Sat Jun 22, 2002 12:30 am

When an intimate love-affair is broken, who stands to lose more? The boy or the girl?

by **khajabi** » Sat Jun 22, 2002 12:30 am

It could be eigther of them. But in most cases it would be girls due to their phisical structure & emotional feeling created by god.

by **Bhaimiya** » Sat Jun 22, 2002 12:30 am

It depends if a girl broke the relationship than the loser is boy and if boy broke the relationship the loser is girl. Today\'s love is just for flirting each other, enjoy as much as possible and than when time comes broke the relationship. No values.

by **Kulcha Hyderabadi** » Sun Jun 23, 2002 12:30 am

At the clinic: The lady doctor after examining the patient (a young girl) says, \"everything is okay, in fact, I have some good news for your Mrs???\" The patient says that she is a \"Miss\" still unmarried. The doctor \"Oh, I see, then I have some bad news for you\"

by **cacofonus** » Sun Jun 23, 2002 12:30 am

who ever it may be, boy or girl, who break the realationship...but ...always BOY is blamed....

by **venkat ranga reddy ravula** » Sun Jun 23, 2002 12:30 am

hi aparna,
you asked something which sounds with sense.anyhow i don\'t think anyone will be a loser in the current scenerio.because what i feel is most the relations these days are truly marerialistic.so in this way both of them will be happy when they seperate.and no one is a loser.if the relation is exceptional,i mean if they love each other unconditionaly i don\'t think either of them will be happy when they seperate.so in that way both the boy and the girl will not be happy.

by **hardcoder** » Sun Jun 23, 2002 12:30 am

well, both stand to lose.. and pls don\'t go around yakking that silly phrase blaming \'todays youth\',\'younger generation\', etc.. it was the same as in the earlier generations as it is now. Only now, youngsters are more willing to tell everything out in the open, but it does not mean that the earlier generation were any holier or mature than us. btw, did you know that India lags 70 years behind the rest of the world when it comes to interaction with others, especially interaction with members of the opposite gender? there is nothing really great about the past because it pulls Indians back to the stone age. anyway sorry for deviating from the topic

by **Shahed** » Mon Jun 24, 2002 12:30 am

A girl will loose if she gains an abnormal weight(Pregnent). A boy will be a looser if he lost his carrier and bank balance w/o any .....

by **Bhaimiya** » Mon Jun 24, 2002 12:30 am

Yes Niru you are 100% right.

by **niru** » Mon Jun 24, 2002 12:30 am

Hai Hardcoder.. sorry I Strongly oppose u. I say that current generation youth is not behaving well(let be boys or gals) I dont talk about maturity here. But in earlier days youth was not in such a bad position. The bad position is running behind the word \'LOVE\'. As i Said in an earlier discussion board that Youth now a days are not really in love. They love the word \"LOVE\". And they think that its presige to have a lover. If you dont agree with this statement Can you say why the Routine Telugu movies(On the name of teenage love) are big hits? I can show some thousand teenagers in Hyd who are spoiling with their career with the name of Love.
Regarding this topic i think neither boy or gal is the looser in the love break because its not real love. its just attraction. Infact I can say that both Gain from this break(Because they got a chance to marry a partner seen by their parents and lead a happy Life.) I am Right Aparna and other?

by **cacofonus** » Mon Jun 24, 2002 12:30 am

i absolutely agree with lucifer....girls r very cunning....they only crave for materialistic pleasures ...

by **lucifer_in_disguise** » Mon Jun 24, 2002 12:30 am

Be it any way round the hyderabadi girl always gains......Ammoh inni extra telivi tetalu inkevarikaina untaaya.....

by **guess** » Tue Jun 25, 2002 12:30 am

my dear shahed...u cant say that unmarried woman or man (as u say boy or girl)....having sex is ILLEGAL...rather u can say...its IMMORAL....what do u say...i abs agree with ur views ...but now a days no one cares as long the IMMORAL relationship doesnt get publicized...let it b our country or any other country....

by **lucifer_in_disguise** » Tue Jun 25, 2002 12:30 am

aaah..........sorry shahed but ur statement is a bit disgusting...why will a girl lose if she attains motherhood, and why do you ppl think it is evil to attain motherhood w/o marriage

by **M. Rama krishna** » Tue Jun 25, 2002 12:30 am

Aparna if their love is true then both will be the loser. Otherwise in them who ever loves really, either he/she will be the losers.

by **niru** » Tue Jun 25, 2002 12:30 am

What do u say LID and hardcoder..? and Thanks Bhaimiya

by **hard coder** » Tue Jun 25, 2002 12:30 am

well niru, it is a general misconception that the good old days were always better

and the current topic seems to go that way... you are right about today\'s movies corrupting youth, but then youth can be corrupted by just anything that seems fad and cool during their time.... And this has been a trend always, not just for our generation. hope you understand..

by **Shahed** » Tue Jun 25, 2002 12:30 am

LID : I donno about other lands & other cultures, but illegal relationship(upto pregnancy level) is considered \'BAD\' in Indian Society. As Indians we have our own culture, tradition & religion,families,society,terms which does not entertain any such kina deep relationship. Avcourse few blind people running after Western culture and fortunately those westerns are eager to adopt indian culture which is simple,pure and reliable......Appy Indian.

by **cacofonus** » Tue Jun 25, 2002 12:30 am

niru...why do u so strongly think that he/she will b happy....if their partner is chosen by their parents....leave aside young lovers that u find around....what abt the adult relationships...they also seem to work well....

by **hard coder** » Tue Jun 25, 2002 12:30 am

Hey whats going on in this discussion? It sure is wrong for a woman to get pregnant before marriage, and it is EQUALLY wrong for the guy who made her pregnant, under the guise of \'love\'. In this case it is nothing but lust, even though some \'broad-minded\' people may call it \'giving in to temptation\' and other long phrases. It is not just against the Indian culture, but against the whole Asian culture and more in particular a blot on the child who is born, because he is going to be taunted all of his life.

by **D_D** » Tue Jun 25, 2002 12:30 am

So you believe that attaining motherhood without marriage is not a bad thing. Have you thought about the others in a family in which this happens?

by **Shahed** » Tue Jun 25, 2002 12:30 am

Well the discussion is about the Illegal relationship between Boy and Girl. And when it says \'boy and girl\' means \'BEFORE MARRIAGE\' simple. Become a pregnant women after marriage is legal and before marriage is illegal for both Boy & Girl. And NO society , religion , culture or any nation will accept happily any such kina relation and they simply condemn it, infact it is a crime in some asian countries. Sleeping with somebody before marriage is Illegal. Perspective of a good Indian.

by **lucifer_in_disguise** » Tue Jun 25, 2002 12:30 am

shahed u did not say illegal relaiton in ur prv msg, be clear of what you say......u cannot expect others to read your mind.....

ur prv msg was\"A girl will loose if she gains an abnormal weight(Pregnent). A boy will be a looser if he lost his carrier and bank balance w/o any .....

by **geetha ghavri** » Wed Jun 26, 2002 12:30 am

All children expect there parents to be the best parents, they expect there parents to be faithful, and none of the parent flirts with some one else than ther partner, children can never withstand this.....the whole point here is , \"when\" the child was born- before or after a legal marriage is not important,what important is that after the marriage, children expect there father to have only one wife, and mother to have one husband.....which child likes to be called herself as second daughter of third wife of her father, though that marriage was perfectly legal...

by **Shahed** » Wed Jun 26, 2002 12:30 am

Guess : If it is immoral and not illegal then why police raids on red light areas and catching the culprits and printing this in the news papers coz it is illegal. Anyway here the matter is what is Good & what is Bad and NOT Immoral or Illegal.

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