by Shahed » Tue May 28, 2002 12:30 am
I am neither a doctor nor a patient I arrived to this board just now and I sticked to it, read each and every comment very carefully , for me it is not a topic but a real life stories and I must want to share my comments. My Sympathy with all the patients who suffered ...and with those genuine DOC\'s also who are serving the people,nation and creating the examples of humanity. Please dont go on my words but try to understand what I want to say. In this board rigth from top to bottom I found there are 2 Groups Pelting stones on each others, blaming each other without thinking about eachothers problems , limitations & circumstances. And I feel sorry for both groups that the way they attacking each other reaching their personal levels like counting dollars, visiting mother land 3 times etc etc.. You people are true professionals in your respective fields ...you are the future of the country, the country\'s progress & Image lies in your behaviour and attitude & hard work. Both the groups what they claimed are valid according to them and I agree with that 100% they are right. In this board I have seen one instance in which one Mr.Kulcha is having great problem with one doc. but he is at the same time praising the other doc. I personally have few bitter and good experiences with docs.(both my family docs. & others) plus the hospitals system like money matters,equipments etc.. etc...& I dont want to write stories about those docs. But the point is FEW DOCS. REALLY WORK FOR MONEY ..THEY ARE VERY GREEDY... THEY ARE ONLY AFTER MONEY.. COZ. THEY FORGOT THE PRESTIGEOUS OATH THEY HAVE TAKEN..LIKE OUR POLITICIANS & POLICE OFFICERS... AND THEY DEGRADE THEIR PROFESSION & CO-WORKERS. But on the other hand I witness there are many docs. who really serves the people with kind heart and they not at all think about money etc etc. their aim is just to cure the patient at any cost. You dont beleive that there are some docs,. who after curing the patient they dont even count the money ... and whatever you give they will keep it and their bahaviour is very nice and touchy. First of all I would like to point out that The doctor is only a doctor - a human being \'HE IS NOT A GOD\'. Everything is not their in his hands and he dosn\'t know the fate or destiny . Everything will happen with the wish of God, and no one can deny that. And you can\'t blame the whole doctors for one\'s mistake... Here you are doing a big mistake and insulting the genuine one who are more in numbers. You will find 100\'s of examples where american & others expert Docs..did such a mistake that no one can even imagine. In one instance they operated one leg, where as the problem was in other leg. Possibility of mistake can be happen in any place either in India or in Europe or any part of the world, we are all human beings, hence can do mistakes. But No Doc Do this intentionally. Another thing is if you dont know anything about any profession you should not poke your nose in that as an expert. There are N... Number of instances in which people treat themselves without consulting a doctor and when the problem exists they cry on doctor. There are 1000\'s of doctors who use to operate patients non stop 10 - 10 hours without taking food,rest etc etc. Go to Guraat releif camps now and see how docs are working there day and night irrespective of their religion and money. And if you blame such genuine hardworking professionals in this way just coz. you suffered with other doc .. this is absolutely wrong my friend and you are insulting the whole humanity. I want to ask Moin Saab that since his birth how many times he has visited the docs. for him and for his family... and I am sure at the end he came with a smile on his face, and the person behind these smiles was a Doctor. And just for one\'s mistake you & others blamed the whole bunch. And I really feel sorry and unfortunate that what went wrong with you and others who suffers with docs.. And remember even those who are experts according to you.. were also fresh and early birds when they came first time to hopital & visited the patient. You are supposed to blame that doc.. personally who is responsible for this and not the whole bunch of doctors. I personally want to say sorry to all those docs. who read and contributed in this board and tasted some bitter experiences. I have full respect in my heart for all good docs. and I pray for bad to become good one. But my dear Docs. you people also think about the patients & his problems. Ultimately the patient has to suffer in both the cases. They may be aggressive for the time being.. circumstances forced them to such extent. For patients doctors are like next to God. They have faith in you and in your profession like anything, they visit you with great hope and trust. Not all but few of docs. really taking advantage of this and creating a havoc in the life of patients. For few neglible docs it is a matter of simple mistake but for a patient or his family its a matter of life and death. In this world few mistakes can be avoidable but few mistakes Can\'t at anycost and this profession falls in that category where no mistake, no negligance is allowed. I saw an incident where a patient met with an accident and bleeding badly, and the hospital staff refusing to admit him coz. they need advance Rs.15000 on the spot for further proceedings. For them 15000 is more than a human life and his pain. Here there is a loop hole in management that they made such kind of rule, advance first, patient later. In other instance one doc. advised me and my mother instead of coming to this hospital come to my private clinic,, there I will give you good treatment for your mothers tooth problem and he gave me his visiting card with all timings.. What is this Shitt Mannn.. He will become a good doctor when he is in his private clinic and helpless and cant do anything when he is in hospital. I have all those docs. list , names and phone numbers with address both kind of doctors good(who really serving the mankind) and bad(who are playing with the life of the people just for money). And for them there is someone else is looking from the top, who is gonna give reward to them according to their deeds. I conclude my message with the hope that we are all part of the society , we are educated , we are literate, we are professional, and carrying the progress of the nation and humanity , need to support each other try and understand the others problem... and dont blame all for one\'s mistake. If you continue like this one day our mother land will be snatched by outsiders. So please Love Doctors.. Love Patients.. Love Nation.. Love All... We are nothing without each other.