Want an orphan girl as mother for my son

by **Abbey786** » Wed May 24, 2006 10:52 pm

I am 36 yrs old banker from hyderabad, i have a 8yrs old kid, whose mother deserted us in 2001, and has not turned back, i wish to mary an orphan girl,around 30 yrs who is educated at least a graduate and can work, for herself and provide love and emotional security for my son and she can expect anything under the sky from me, she need to be a little fair as my son is fair and she should not be a "STEP" she should be a real mother...

I wish to seek the route where i can find such a person, addresses of places and churches, as i am a christian please as i am desparate i want to help a girl as well as my son, kindly pray for my cause if it is just...

by **R.U Smart** » Thu May 25, 2006 1:22 am

Hello- First of all-u must write why ur wife abandoned u and ur son. Normally it is difficult that a mother abandons her child and reach a situation that u hv to look for another person to look after ur child. If u put down the facts as to who was really to be blamed then it is possible for anyone to correspònd. Also u must write more about yourself. Writing that u are a christian does not mean anything.

The very fact that u are looking for an orphan means u have not been able to manage one who is not.

Pls express urself properly to get a positive reply.

by **WTF??? HP** » Thu May 25, 2006 1:59 am

R.U Smart wrote:Hello- First of all-u must write why ur wife abandoned u and ur son. Normally it is difficult that a mother abandons her child and reach a situation that u hv to look for another person to look after ur child. If u put down the facts as to who was really to be blamed then it is possible for anyone to correspònd. Also u must write more about yourself. Writing that u are a christian does not mean anything.

IMO, the prerogative to know who, why & what is of those who would be interested in accepting his offer. Why should he share it with the whole world if he doesn't want to?

R.U Smart wrote:The very fact that u are looking for an orphan means u have not been able to manage one who is not.

He's written clearly that he is looking for an orphan as he wants to help one. This attack is needless and unwarranted.

[quote="R.U Smart]Pls express urself properly to get a positive reply.

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Please do not be so harsh and negative towards anyone for no reason.

by **betty** » Thu May 25, 2006 11:14 am

I am not very sure about the legalities involved here....but you say that the mother 'deserted' you and her son...so does that mean that you are not formally divorced? If so, then, is a separation of 5 years equivalent to a divorce under the law?

Just asking because if not, then, your second marriage will become void if your first wife turns up.

A grown up orphan, i.e. 30 years of age, might be found from records maintained in an orphanage....

by **CtrlAltDel** » Thu May 25, 2006 2:48 pm

ABBEY786 wrote:...she need to be a little fair as my son is fair...

i take objection to that

cant dark ladies ake good mothers?

cant dark ladies have fair skinned children?

... @$@#$ :evil:

by **betty** » Thu May 25, 2006 6:09 pm

CtrlAltDel wrote:
ABBEY786 wrote:...she need to be a little fair as my son is fair...
i take objection to that
... @$@#$

There were other things to which I took objection, but I just mentioned the possibility of a legal issue, otherwise HP would have again berated me for being unkind to ABBEY786.

by **Amused HP** » Thu May 25, 2006 6:24 pm

betty wrote:.........otherwise HP would have again berated me for being unkind to ABBEY786.

I see that you still carry a very high opinion of yourself.

by **The Jackal** » Thu May 25, 2006 7:05 pm

CtrlAltDel wrote:
ABBEY786 wrote:...she need to be a little fair as my son is fair...
i take objection to that

cant dark ladies ake good mothers?

cant dark ladies have fair skinned children?

... @$@#$

Same here.My mother is dark but I quite fair myself...... :evil:

by **Sharjeel** » Thu May 25, 2006 7:15 pm

I personally would not care, but if he wants someone fair, why should we object?

by **gyanster** » Thu May 25, 2006 7:31 pm

He probably doesn't just want a son. He also wants a partner for himself. BTW where is he?

by **Clueless HP** » Thu May 25, 2006 7:42 pm

Sharjeel wrote:I personally would not care, but if he wants someone fair, why should we object?

Exactly my point. Don't we have a right to our personal preferences? Why should we cry foul when we come across someone who has a point of view different from ours in matters that are so personal?

by **CtrlAltDel** » Fri May 26, 2006 11:44 am

whats the difference between what he wrote and matrimonial ads calling for a "...fair, slim girl..."...?

he's looking for an educated, working girl who can be a good mother for his kid and the preference for a "fair" lady just doesnt gell here.

by **CtrlAltDel** » Fri May 26, 2006 11:46 am

...or maybe i am pissed off coz i prefer dark n dusky girls :oops:

by **betty** » Fri May 26, 2006 12:23 pm

Amused HP wrote:
betty wrote:.........otherwise HP would have again berated me for being unkind to ABBEY786.

I see that you still carry a very high opinion of yourself.

There you go again.... :roll:

get a life....