I am ashamed of myself

by ZC » Sat May 15, 2004 8:13 am

Today morning, i was waiting for bus to go to office. i was sitting in the bus-stop and a lady walked past me......she went to the other side of the bus-stop and stood there for 10 seconds.......

She then came into the bus-stop and stood in front of me.......i have observed that she was BLIND initially only and was just looking at her without offering help......what an _ i am :oops:

after some 20 sedonds.......one fellow talked to her and assited her into the bus 'xyz' and i was waiting for bus 'pqr'...i realised my stupidity and got into 'xyz' and got down when she got down and have taken her to her destination.......which was actually on my way to the office.....

after all the education and listening to fundas from religious people and elders, for that few minutes of my life......when i realised what a "Gadha" i am.....i was very ashamed of myself :oops:

by **Arch** » Sat May 15, 2004 8:42 am

You are being too tough on urslef, ZC. kabhi Kabhi hoti hai.

U see yet u do not register and act. It aint fair on you.

Hey, u kno what? u can actually feel wonderful abt' urself that u were aware of it and u realsied imm. and helped her out later too ! ctrl wud ceratinly see it so for he's so optimistic, in gen.

so why dont u treat urself out today, am sure so many of ur friends wud love to join u, hai na akhil, azazel, and the rest of the grp.

fullhyd family ke naam pe ? hojaaye? Have a grt day.

by **Happy Hyderabadi** » Sat May 15, 2004 8:58 am

ZC wrote:... i realised what a "Gadha" i am ...

ZC, DD - FH, "Gadha" ... ?!

Being DD, ZC is FH "Gadu", er GOD!

:wink:

by **akhilis2cool** » Sat May 15, 2004 10:03 am

Yes ZC bhai kahaan aana bolo. I and Azazel r ready on one foot. tum bas aana jaane aur ka ticket nikalo :wink:

by **gods_gift2_mankind** » Sat May 15, 2004 10:08 am

ZC u r actually being too hard on urself - u did help the woman remember!

better late than never

by **LP_Fan** » Sat May 15, 2004 11:00 am

Take it easy man, don't worry about it.

I met many people who won't even feel sorry.

by **asli_badmash** » Sat May 15, 2004 12:16 pm

Yeah you should be ashamed of yourself.. Is this what your parents taught you ? Go somewhere and kill yourself by dubofying in chullu bhar paani.

But wait you helped the lady right... So maybe you can pospone the dubna(sinking) for some time. Next time you decide you are a "gadha".. I recommend you dubofy in chullu bhar paani. And I would like to see you do it. I have always heard of it, but never saw how people can dubofy in chullu bhar paani. Kapisch....

~badmash~

by BM » Sat May 15, 2004 1:26 pm

Take it easy next time help from the beginning of the episode

by **Bimbette** » Sat May 15, 2004 4:39 pm

Hey ZC, Like the others have said , don't be too harsh on yourself. So what if ur offer for help came a lil late ?

Ur conscience is still alive and that my friend makes a difference.....

by **Aditi** » Sun May 16, 2004 2:08 am

Isiliye Main bolthi hoon "Donate ur eyes".

by **azazel** » Sun May 16, 2004 10:24 pm

keep it up my baay.. *pat on the back*

by ZC » Mon May 17, 2004 8:20 am

Aditi wrote:Isiliye Main bolthi hoon "Donate ur eyes".

that i can do when i am dead.......but do u know that the dead body is the property of ur relatives and you have to convince them to donate ur eyes...........or for that matter, any part of the body.....

by **LP_Fan** » Mon May 17, 2004 8:38 am

ZC wrote:
Aditi wrote:Isiliye Main bolthi hoon "Donate ur eyes".

that i can do when i am dead.......but do u know that the dead body is the property of ur relatives and you have to convince them to donate ur eyes...........or for that matter, any part of the body.....

What!!!I didnt know this...

by **CtrlAltDel** » Mon May 17, 2004 10:25 am

LP_Fan wrote:
ZC wrote:...but do u know that the dead body is the property of ur relatives and you have to convince them to donate ur eyes...or for that matter, any part of the body.....
What!!!I didnt know this...

i think if u specify yr intention in a Will, relatives are bound to follow.

by **MANZ** » Fri May 21, 2004 1:10 pm

arey yaar, u atleast helped her, there r times, i just sit & watch helplessly ... too shy to come forward ...

ALways feel like hepling, but seeing all others not taking care of that person, i feel shy to come forward ...

Kya karna ...

by **Arch** » Fri May 21, 2004 7:11 pm

MANZ wrote:arey yaar, u atleast helped her, there r times, i just sit & watch helplessly ... too shy to come forward ...

ALways feel like hepling, but seeing all others not taking care of that person, i feel shy to come forward ...

Kya karna ...

If you can cross that threshold of shyness for the first time, it wud become very easy and an enjoyable an experience that it is, for the rest of the times, MANZ.

A suggestion: You can visit any of the orphanages or old age homes where (even) ones presence is much welcomed. You can watch around or volunteer to help and get the hang of it and you can get over ur shyness that first time?

Most of the people incharge in most of such places are very kind and understanding. They go out of their ways and give us that little nudge that we need

You can go to Mother Terresa's home for the orphanage which used to be in musheerabad/sec'bad.

Have a lovely time giving them a lot more than lovely time

.

by **stingrae** » Fri May 21, 2004 7:37 pm

wow....dude u actually got on dat bus n helped her get off....i'm kinda stumped by all d "niceness" around here!! dint think ppl like these abound....

i dont see any reason in u bein ashamed....it jus took some time for u to react dats all...

***starts to believe in humanity again***

:-)