Girls... clubs... in Hyd

by **poiuy** » Mon Oct 07, 2002 11:32 pm

Hi, I\'m in the US. I will be returning to Hyd in Dec after 2.5 years. This trip is for lots of fun. I heard from many of my friends (genuine info) that the girls in hyd are far more advanced than what I saw 2.5 yrs back (actually I hadn\'t seen much then, too). By advanced my friends referred that picking girls is easy and in some pubs/clubs - the girl will be dancing (teasing) for you for a few minutes just for a few bucks. Is this true? I cannot beleive it. And many friends are talking abt picking girls for some money. Is it true that you can pay them for giving company? Please discuss the true and real scenario... Don\'t give any bad remarks to the friends that told this or to anyone. Just tell the real facts about the issue. Don\'t comment about any person, or even the girls who do that... Talking about any person is easy!!!

by **123** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 12:27 am

U go to hyd , spend time with ur family and relations and stop thinking about the chances of picking up girls:) Dont talk and behave like some sex-starving person. Don't ask info on this. Looks bad!!!!!

by **Guest** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:29 am

Well said!

by Me » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:30 am

well said!! funny though!!

by **Neeraj** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 11:13 am

Dear USA Friend, what do you think India is? What do you think Hyderabad is? Our Indian women are not like cheap Westerns with no ethics. They don\'t live with anyone, they don\'t like changing pampers... how dare anyone think that Hyderabadi girls will fall for money? My friend, do not have such impressions... there are so many places in New York for your interest and not in our Hyderabad... we still maintain our culture and tradition... Just because girls go for dancing, they are not sex starved like the ones in your Western culture...

If you have such a perception in your mind, pls do not come back from the US, this is not the place for your interest. You need to go to France or some European country where they have defacto status meaning that you can live with your girlfriend as long as you like. Indian we will never fall for such crap...

by **poiuy** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 12:15 pm

Well Neeraj and all... I know these are the crappy kind of responses that my post will get. Sincerely, I\'m not looking for this routine stereotyped (our girls... blah blah)responses. And I\'m not a sex-starved whatever... ugh. U don\'t even dare to face the truth and see what\'s going on.. some fellow will just start saying \"Our Indian culture... blah blah\". I don\'t know how much of culture u have known. I was asking for ur response about whether it is true or not. I have seen some stuff happening. But it\'s true that those kinda ppl are rare. But the fact is... it\'s like that. And coming to the Western counter part, it\'s the age-old myth that the Western culture is all like that. In any culture there r always good and bad ppl. I was talking about how bad the situation is there now. From what I had heard it sounded bad. But u r giving the routine dialogue without any frank answer which I cannot beleive or value. Well, anyone from here stop posting to this... My mistake...

by **poiuy** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 12:21 pm

Oh, I forgot... did I ever mention sex. I said company. Like a girlfriend to have fun and clubbing. I guess whoever thought of it as sex \'ugh\' is the perv. Sex in our community, no matter how bad the culture turns, is a sacred thing. And I know what my culture is, dammit.. and I know better which to choose frm. As I said, to talk about somebody is easy... particularly in our culture. You proved it again...

by **peeping tom** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 8:59 pm

Yes Mr. Poi, I agree with u. I have seen girls openly smoking in pubs in Hyderabad, hugging their boyfriends. I dunno whether they are husbands/boyfriends/INSTANT FRIENDS, but I see boyfriends and girlfriends roaming in remote parts of Marredpally itself. So in this city girls are really nowadays becoming open. I have no idea about instant girls. You may get them in the Tank Bund area in odd hours.

by **popesmokesdope** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 9:06 pm

Hey d00d, I understand u meant well. The responses just show the sad state of the mentality prevailing around here. And girls do run for money (mostly)... I am not generalising anything - it is a simple matter of one\'s preference, and its perfectly okay. The Hyd girls are no diff... even they fall for lumpy pockets (pun intented). The one thing that really disturbed me was the lack of general awareness among hyderabadis... Tho\' no regrets - I like the Hyderabadi way of life and am slowly getting used to it.

by **popesmokesodpe** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 9:09 pm

Hey peepo to, thanks for the info pa! You just made my day. Neva knew girls hang around in Marredpally... I think I will go there right now... heh heh, just kidding.

by **popesmokesdope** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 9:24 pm

Neeraj, I always respected u for ur prompt replies and the enthu u show towards Indianness and our culture. With all due respect, lemme ask u something... how the hell do u know that the females in Hyd are not sex-starved? And that they do not fall for money? I can give u hajaaar instances and tell u otherwise. And don\'t get me wrong, I am NOT trying to generalise. And I really cannot fathom why are u being soo xenopobhic... Westerners too have a tradition, a custom and all that hooplah. Theirs may not be as grand or as pivotal as ours, but their customs also have significance. There is nothing wrong if a person craves for sex, that\'s the person\'s instinct, is a must for survival, and is above all law/customs. Every time you elaborate on something very Indian and the nitty-gritties of our tradition, u sound more and more like a loser. No offence.

by **Flowers** » Wed Oct 09, 2002 8:03 pm

I\'m a Hyderabadi girl and I read with interest the comments posted by everyone. \"Girls are more \"advanced\"......\" That sounds more like the description of a Pentium Processor or something. I think u r over-reacting. Look, u r going to find a mix of ppl when u get back. It all depends on where u look. The pubs? Obviously u don\'t expect the puritanical girls there?!!! I know of girls who are on the other end of the spectrum too. The kinds who are very decent/very conservative etc. Yes, they still exist. And like someone said, lets not get judgemental here.

by **peeping tom** » Wed Oct 09, 2002 8:49 pm

Dear Neeraj, Hope you will understand the practical things and don\'t be in dream world:)

by **poiuy** » Wed Oct 09, 2002 9:24 pm

Hey Flowers, obviously i\'m talking abt the girls in pubs. I know many of the \"puritanical girls\". How stupid will I be talking abt them. Talking abt them would be talking abt my family. I always respect them. Yeah I\'m a software guy, so no doubt that I sounded like describing a Pentium proc

. And if u read my whole threads I never was judgemental and am completely against it. Thanks for a frank response though.
Peeping Tom, exactly I was referring to the girls that u r talking abt. From what I heard, the Tankbund girls r not girls I\'m referring to. Those r called hoes (whores). My suggestion is, don\'t ever try to go to that end of the life.
popesmokesdope I like ur response to Neeraj who just know little. But it\'s not his mistake - lack of exposure. Neeraj, my suggestion is GET PRACTICAL. LOOK OUT... Don\'t be judgemental.
But I still don\'t know why we r talking about sex. Hanging out is different from sex. Don\'t always treat a girl for sex. And all girls that hang out r not for sex. WATCH OUT. Or u will be in trouble. It\'s just that those kinda girls r attracted for money and don\'t care to come out with u(even they and u don\'t know abt each other). They like to enjoy. And if u think that they r for sex... ugh... it\'s totally wrong. DANCE... that\'s the best way to express one\'s (at least my) happiness. Have some beer, n DANCE babe... forget the rest of the world. I am talking about the romantic part with the girl not the sex part ppl.
Well anyways please lemme know if there are any local chat rooms for hyd ppl where I can catch hold of such girls. If any girl is interested in what I am looking for please do contact me: m26_35824@yahoo.com. I will promise a nice safe time and lots of fun. Forget abt the money part... hehe.

by **abcd** » Thu Oct 10, 2002 9:43 pm

mr please beleive me today i saw 3 young girls with fully covered faces suddenly entered in to the ONEFLIGHTDOWN pub of Quality inn residency hotel in Nampally. they ordered rum large. gulfed them quickly and disappeared quickly . beleive hyderabad is going fast.

by **Flowers** » Thu Oct 10, 2002 11:24 pm

Oops...thats my mistake...the \"judgemental\" part was not meant for you. Had read some of the other responses....it was meant for the others who don\'t think twice about acting like the moral police.

by **Telugu Thalli** » Fri Oct 11, 2002 1:19 am

Neeraj- that\'s a pakka Telugu movie response you gave for a very decent board. Have you stepped out of your Galli and viewed the whole of Hyderabad?

by **poiuy** » Fri Oct 11, 2002 5:28 am

Wohooo..// Looks like the board is spicing up. Well I got some 17 responses. pour some more spice on the topic plzz..
Share all ur genuine experiences only. So that some ppl may get a chance to realize by knowing the places and look whats going on really in HYD clubs.
Nobody answered where r the local chat rooms for hyd. How do ppl date (don\'t start again with \"DATING in HYD ...omg..Where r u frm ... etc etc..\"). haffun..

by V » Sat Oct 12, 2002 5:20 am

hey psmkdope, you say \'There is nothing wrong if a person craves for sex\' which is not right. I disagree. If u read some of our Indian Hindu teachings, it clearly says that that is not the right thing to do. Thats not my opinion or figment of my imag, but I am just mentioning recorded teachings.

by **popesmokesdope** » Sat Oct 12, 2002 12:21 pm

pssst pssst have u woken right after the bubonic plague??? the scared hindu texts were written like ages back... and most of it doesn\'t hold good now. it\'s good for u if u want to embrace it to attain mental peace... but to me it is just a mere work of calligraphy. sex is very instinctive and not to be condemned or taboo-ed. it is a carnal pleasure. sex these days to an extent has become a luxury and there is nothing wrong in accepting it. and one more point... tho\' it may sound very stupid... if not for sex ur physical form wud not have been possible!!!

by **popesmoksdope** » Sat Oct 12, 2002 12:27 pm

every time i try to spice upp things i get my posts deleted!!!

by **Hyderabadi** » Sat Oct 12, 2002 6:06 pm

\"I promise a nice safe time and lots of fun\"!!!! That sentence is a trifle worrying. Presuming you are a decent guy I\'m wondering why u have to post messages on a discussion board for company!! Ever heard of yahoo or indiatimes?! Why don\'t u chat with ppl there and make friends instead of posting such ambiguous messages.....and lol@popesmokesdope

by V » Sat Oct 12, 2002 11:42 pm

mr. psd, u got all your basics wrong. If u think the age-old scriptures are out-dated and cannot offer a solution to human day-to-day problems of this Yuga, most certainly nothing else can- least of all your cravings of sex and other material pleasures. If u understand english (anyone can read english) I did not say sex is taboo or any such stuff that you allege. I said that cravings for sense pleasures which includes sex is not correct. If you are a product of such a craving... thats unfortunate.

by **ex-hyderabadi2** » Sat Oct 12, 2002 11:44 pm

Mr V, have you seen the Ajanta temple paintings. For that matter, did you look at the temple scupltures closely, including the Mahabalipuram temples? You will not only find that sex is not treated with distaste but embraced as erotic! I will submit that in the ancient times, when the Kings ruled India, sexuality was not treated as dirty and I suspect sex was easier to obtain...India was a LOT more advanced in this respect than western world. Only recently(last 100years or so), people developed articifial hang-ups and principles...thus leading to a lot of depraved feelings...just stand at a bus stop(lakdi-ka-pool is a good one!) and watch the guys salivating about every girl that passes by...whether good looking or not!

by **ex-hyderabadi2** » Mon Oct 14, 2002 6:51 am

Mr. V. Craving for sex is no different than having a craving for something you haven\'t had or could\'nt have. Certain kind of choclate? Andhra Mangoes for us transplanted types...etc etc. It\'s completely natural. With respect to Sex, my theory is that most people never quite get what they desire and it\'s left unfulfilled all their lives. You will find the same type of behaviours in Western countries(where supposedly sex is easier to obtain!). The only difference is how well the craving is expressed. You don\'t find people ogling openly as you see in India, but the basic instinct is still very much there...Look at the scandals of the catholic church. I am sure if you will find similar things among the priests in India too!

Ashok

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