SimarikSmokin wrote:I call them trash because they are selling themselves like that, one thing i was sooo disappointed in and i hate that and i am not trying to cause a relgion clash here, but in Chandini Bar, tabu a muslim becomes a beer bad girl which i hated, i hate it when they portray a muslim as a terrorist or a bad person or a PIMP. But my point is that women who don't respect themselves like i do to me are Trashy Women, who wear revealing clothes, or just being plain Slutty.
I know I am going to ruffle a lot of feathers here, but I do not have an alternative. Before reading further please keep in mind that I am not targetting anyone personally.
It is not without reason that I expand NRI as Not Required Indians. Having spent so much time outside the country they lose touch with the ground realities in India. That is understandable. What is, however, unforgivable is that without any knowledge of how things work in India they make sweeping statements about the affairs of the country and what is wrong with it.
Not everything is in black and white. There is a huge grey zone between the two. The case here is prostitution. It is easy to say that they do it for wasy money and if they wanted a respectful life they could have chosen a more dignified way of doing that. Prostitution is one of the saddest things a woman has to go through. Nothing could be more derogatory to her dignity. Those who think that women do it out of choice, I suggest you do not eat for three days. You will then realise the sheer desperation that forces them to take this up.
I had been to a village in Rajasthan once during the peak of the Indian summer. There was no water to be found and I was dying of thirst. Then someone got me a glass of water that was muddy in colour - half of it was mud!. I drank it because that was the only way to survive. It is things like these that make you understand the sheer apathy of the unfortunate few.
It is very easy to make a statement from the confines of your comfortable living room. Reality is a lot more starking than that.
PS: Please, this was not intended to hurt anyone.