why r they so insecure ?

[ZC]

While walking along the corridors, many times....99.9999999 %, i observe this:



If a female of the species is walking in front of me...... i think that way, but the female herself thinks "y is this guy walking behind me" probably/probably not.......



i feel probably they think that "y is this guy walking/following behind" even when both r walking at approx the same speed and its just a coincidence........



what they do is......one of these



1.) They stop to look back if something dirty got on to the trousers or sari

2.) Stop and look at the shoe/sandal

3.) Take out the mobile and pretend to dial something

4.) Stop, think as if they forgot something and then walk again with a 'look'--- "chaltha hain" its not that imp anyway



etc etc etc



they do it for abt 10 seconds until i cross them and they start walking again.......believe me, i have visited a few countries, its the same everywhere



do others guys observe similar things........ y r they so insecure



even an SS(silk-smitha) probably feels like SS(sushmita sen) and does this

[azazel]

If a female of the species is walking in front of me......

hell, with Zee - the Colossus walkin behind me, even i'd feel insecure ..

[rock_26iin]

hell, with Zee - the Colossus walkin behind me, even i'd feel insecure ..

True, very true.



ZC, no offense meant. lol

[ZC]

hell, with Zee - the Colossus walkin behind me, even i'd feel insecure ..

True, very true.

ZC, no offense meant. lol

[Arch]

While walking along the corridors, many times....99.9999999 %, i observe this:

If a female of the species is walking in front of me...... i think that way, but the female herself thinks "y is this guy walking behind me" probably/probably not.......

i feel probably they think that "y is this guy walking/following behind" even when both r walking at approx the same speed and its just a coincidence........

what they do is......one of these

1.) They stop to look back if something dirty got on to the trousers or sari
2.) Stop and look at the shoe/sandal
3.) Take out the mobile and pretend to dial something
4.) Stop, think as if they forgot something and then walk again with a 'look'--- "chaltha hain" its not that imp anyway

etc etc etc

they do it for abt 10 seconds until i cross them and they start walking again.......believe me, i have visited a few countries, its the same everywhere

do others guys observe similar things........ y r they so insecure

even an SS(silk-smitha) probably feels like SS(sushmita sen) and does this

I think every little girl upwards would have atleast had one bad experience with a male.



These happen generally in corridors, or such men come from the back and do it or from side ways, oh, hell. it happens from any angle anywhere whenever they get a 'chance'. This thing called 'male', could be in a three piece suit or maybe just in undies or whatever.



An experience like being touched, grabbed, licked,hit on buttocks or grabbed at, breathed heavily upon or into the neck, spit upon, winked at, pulled out the tounge at such where this little girl or a grown woman is being invited to have a sexual act with his mouth or he could be touching himself at the least and or could be flashing if the circumstances are right. These are some of the few that happen out there, for certain.



No, this has nothing to do with lack of clothing or exposureof the female. As I said this happens to little girls too. How could they be exposing to invite such gestures from such lowly men ?



One such experience and you are careful ZC. Such experiences would be numerous in a females' life. Obviously we will be 'aware' of a man. We would like to maintain that distance.



BTW, it lessens when a female is confident of herself, but will still be there.



Do you all still feel like laughing at that woman who took that care with you, ZC? Afterall, she does not know you as you know yourself that you will not stoop down to such levels.

[ZC]

While walking along the corridors, many times....99.9999999 %, i observe this:

If a female of the species is walking in front of me...... i think that way, but the female herself thinks "y is this guy walking behind me" probably/probably not.......

i feel probably they think that "y is this guy walking/following behind" even when both r walking at approx the same speed and its just a coincidence........

what they do is......one of these

1.) They stop to look back if something dirty got on to the trousers or sari
2.) Stop and look at the shoe/sandal
3.) Take out the mobile and pretend to dial something
4.) Stop, think as if they forgot something and then walk again with a 'look'--- "chaltha hain" its not that imp anyway

etc etc etc

they do it for abt 10 seconds until i cross them and they start walking again.......believe me, i have visited a few countries, its the same everywhere

do others guys observe similar things........ y r they so insecure

even an SS(silk-smitha) probably feels like SS(sushmita sen) and does this

I think every little girl upwards would have atleast had one bad experience with a male.

These happen generally in corridors, or such men come from the back and do it or from side ways, oh, hell. it happens from any angle anywhere whenever they get a 'chance'. This thing called 'male', could be in a three piece suit or maybe just in undies or whatever.

An experience like being touched, grabbed, licked,hit on buttocks or grabbed at, breathed heavily upon or into the neck, spit upon, winked at, pulled out the tounge at such where this little girl or a grown woman is being invited to have a sexual act with his mouth or he could be touching himself at the least and or could be flashing if the circumstances are right. These are some of the few that happen out there, for certain.

No, this has nothing to do with lack of clothing or exposureof the female. As I said this happens to little girls too. How could they be exposing to invite such gestures from such lowly men ?

One such experience and you are careful ZC. Such experiences would be numerous in a females' life. Obviously we will be 'aware' of a man. We would like to maintain that distance.

BTW, it lessens when a female is confident of herself, but will still be there.

Do you all still feel like laughing at that woman who took that care with you, ZC? Afterall, she does not know you as you know yourself that you will not stoop down to such levels.

i see ............

[CtrlAltDel]

do others guys observe similar things........ y r they so insecure

ya, i've observed that too. but how does the lady in question know u r harmless? Most ladies of any age face unwanted attention from males, so they are careful with any strangers.



i know confident ladies who dont show fear in such situation. but from what they told me i understand that they too are a little apprehensive inside but have learnt to mask it well.

[asli_badmash]

Some really nice observations and I agree with you Arch.

I think every little girl upwards would have atleast had one bad experience with a male.

Sad but true... I mean its sick, specially when its done to kids. If I ever get a hold of one these dude's I would like to probably cut his balls.

These happen generally in corridors, or such men come from the back and do it or from side ways, oh, hell. it happens from any angle anywhere whenever they get a 'chance'. This thing called 'male', could be in a three piece suit or maybe just in undies or whatever.

Clothes dont make a man, putting on a nice pair doesnt curb the devil in you. Its your culture that defines you.

An experience like being touched, grabbed, licked,hit on buttocks or grabbed at, breathed heavily upon or into the neck, spit upon, winked at, pulled out the tounge at such where this little girl or a grown woman is being invited to have a sexual act with his mouth or he could be touching himself at the least and or could be flashing if the circumstances are right. These are some of the few that happen out there, for certain.

Wow thats a lot of weirdness or rather lewdness. I am not a woman so I cant imagine what you guy go through, but I guess its hard. I have a sister too and I cant imagine how guys who have sisters do it unto others. Again the issue comes down to what you are taught at home, what kind of male role model (dad) you have at home.

No, this has nothing to do with lack of clothing or exposureof the female. As I said this happens to little girls too. How could they be exposing to invite such gestures from such lowly men ?

Makes me sick, yet it happens daily. There was another thread about a incest case started by I think 57Jaan, which talked about this.

One such experience and you are careful ZC. Such experiences would be numerous in a females' life. Obviously we will be 'aware' of a man. We would like to maintain that distance.

BTW, it lessens when a female is confident of herself, but will still be there.

Do you all still feel like laughing at that woman who took that care with you, ZC? Afterall, she does not know you as you know yourself that you will not stoop down to such levels.

Nicely put Arch... the rule of thumb for women is, its better to be safe than sorry.



All this said... I think not all Men are bad. Its a few that create problem. But the rest have to pay a price. But sometimes woman are too paranoid, I mean not everyone wants to do stuff to you. Dont pre-judge people!



So ZC follow the below written protocol when you are walking behind a woman..



1. Walk slower than the Woman, much slower and DONOT I mean donot look at or admire any thing , while you are behind her.



2. If for any reason, the woman stops and turns back to look at you. Immediatly go down on your knees and bow down, do not make eye contact and beg for forgiveness like your life depends on it.



3. If she bends down to pick her sandal, offer your head for her to hit on.



4. If she asks you why you are following her, tell her you just want to make sure, she is safe in your area, also reply in most polite words and donot make eye contact and bow your head while you talk to her. Refer to her by your highness.



5. If she pulls out her cell phone to call the cops, and for some reason it doesnt work, offer your phone and wait for the cops to come and get yourself arrested, after all you were "WALKING BEHIND THE WOMAN."



Try it and tell us how it works out...



~badmash~

[ZC]

its happening since i was a kid:



since we moved into the city and i used to be very tall for my age and .........



since my school had a proper tie with a double knot.....people used to ask me in high school ......MBA



once or twice i was in the middle of the bus and the ladies shouted at me.... probably they thot i am 20 when i was 12 yrs old



i never sat again in .......other than last seats even when the stupid bus driver speeds over a speed breaker and i used to be thrown into the air while sitting or if i was stading my head used to hit the roof top on every break or a small pot-hole





i used to curse India..........but now after cisiting many countries....its the same everywhere

[Arch]

hey, asli, phir badmaashi, cute one at that, ZC, bakra.



ZC, sorry that it had to happen to a 12 yr old ! I know what you are talking abt'. my bro'd similar situations coz' of his height too. right in hyd !!



Now that u 'knights' do know how it is w/ us damsels, lets keep that way somewhere back in there and pretend you do not know until you 'need' to remember during such times when we r in danger and then the daggers can be drawn



Most of the young damsels may not appreciate this newly found knowledge of you knights what w/ feminism and all . but..



Jokes apart, we certainly do need to develop our independence to survive out in the big bad world on our own too, hai na? Its a little more tougher for us than it is for you guys.. I guess or is it ?



asli ! jab ladki chalthi hai agge aage aur ladka chaltha hai peeche peeche, ladki ko aur bhi takleef hoti hai, asli bhai, kyon ke nazar jo nahin milti masti (hey, good kind of masti) bhari aakhon ki !!

[asli_badmash]

hey, asli, phir badmaashi, cute one at that, ZC, bakra.

Badmashi mera kaam hain,
Asli_badmash mera naam hai. Kya?

Most of the young damsels may not appreciate this newly found knowledge of you knights what w/ feminism and all . but..

Jokes apart, we certainly do need to develop our independence to survive out in the big bad world on our own too, hai na? Its a little more tougher for us than it is for you guys.. I guess or is it ?

I dont think guys have it easy. Chivalry ke rehte.. guys are doomed to provide service and always try to keep up the knight in shining armour image. You know how uncomfortable a metal suit is. You can even pee with that on you.

I think the guys have it tougher in the world.

for example :
1. Guys have to stand in a longer line at the banks, the ladies line is always short. You know how frustrating it is when you have been standing in the line for an hour and you see a lady, matakte hui madam saab tashrif layiengi or phat se kaam ho jayega. Hum saab kya itne time se jo khade hain. Kya hum insaan nahin hai.

2. Bus mein people get up to give you women seats. Nobody ever did that to me.

3. Bus ka stop na ho, tab bhi ek smile maara or bus beech road mein ruk jaati hai. And for guys the driver(dumb guy) doesnt stop at the designated stops.

there are many more examples.. But I am not going to cite them all. I guess you get the point.

Women talk about equality when it suits them. Baaki samay they are damesels in distress and they expect us to be knight in shinning armours. When guys are in trouble where is our "joan of arc" then you women dont even look at us. We are supposed to fight our way back on our own.

asli ! jab ladki chalthi hai agge aage aur ladka chaltha hai peeche peeche, ladki ko aur bhi takleef hoti hai, asli bhai, kyon ke nazar jo nahin milti masti (hey, good kind of masti) bhari aakhon ki !!

Hai maar dala re.. ein masti bhari aankhon ne.. Jao jao doctor ko bulao.. lagta hai mera time khatam eis dharti paar. Kya pata tha ARCH ki masti bhari aankhon mein itna naasha hai ke, eik nazar main hi... khalas..



Aab masti is masti yaar... good ho ke bad. BTW what is good masti and bad masti? Me thinks.. Good masti is ankhoon hi ankhoon mein ishara types and bad masti is "EVERYTHING GOES". Kya ARCH... Yehi naa..



~badmash~

[Arch]

Badmashi mera kaam hain,
Asli_badmash mera naam hai. Kya?

yup. u r right. dikhaa tho rahe ho, na apni badmaashi. poori apni naam par jathe hai aap !

I think the guys have it tougher in the world.

for example :
1. Guys have to stand in a longer line at the banks, the ladies line is always short. You know how frustrating it is when you have been standing in the line for an hour and you see a lady, matakte hui madam saab tashrif layiengi or phat se kaam ho jayega. Hum saab kya itne time se jo khade hain.

Kya hum insaan nahin hai. bandar ke kaam aap jo karte hai, aur ulta humse poochete hai ke aap insaan hai yah nahin !!

BTW, yeah, lol, I remember. when we'd stand in the line, a short one at that, aur aap logon ki laaammmbi si, 'sister, sister, ek ticket hamare liyye bhi lenna sister, thank you sister' and a widest,cutest yet stupidest (how do u guys manage all the 3 in one ) smile dedethe the.

2. Bus mein people get up to give you women seats. Nobody ever did that to me. hey.hey.hey. Comeon you did accept that you 'are' chivolrous. Period. Moreover, it shud b a pleasure to be able to do that, y'kno, jeez.

3. Bus ka stop na ho, tab bhi ek smile maara or bus beech road mein ruk jaati hai. And for guys the driver(dumb guy) doesnt stop at the designated stops.
he.he.he yeah, u r so very right. and you know what, asli, we wud enjoy it so much. it used to b a simple wow. and they wud allow us to stand right beside or behind the drivers' so that we dont have to be amongst the whole lot of people. they even would stop right by our whereever we needed to get down. AaHaa. those were the days.

there are many more examples.. But I am not going to cite them all. I guess you get the point. oh, i wish you gave some more examples.. they are such sweet memories..

Women talk about equality when it suits them. arre yaar, kyon nahin? dont you choose what ever is right for you ? We woman are the fledglings in this art of equality, asli. At times we go out of the boundries and then get back to the other extreme. We have to learn to balance.


Baaki samay they are damesels in distress and they expect us to be knight in shinning armours. hey. dont you like it when we are in distress and yourselves to be the knights in your shinning armours ? Such romantic thought. Oh, well, that's where it is I guess, just as a romantic thought.

When guys are in trouble where is our "joan of arc" then you women dont even look at us. We are supposed to fight our way back on our own.
as Joan of Arc we wud love to be and most often we are but you know what? A Man is a Man is a Man for he is ABLE to fight his own way back. and that's what is being a knight all about.

Hai maar dala re.. ein masti bhari aankhon ne.. Jao jao doctor ko bulao.. lagta hai mera time khatam eis dharti paar. Kya pata tha ARCH ki masti bhari aankhon mein itna naasha hai ke, eik nazar main hi... khalas..
In aankhon ki masti ke ek mastane tho aap nikle, binna dekhe hee !!?
bus,kissi ladki ki masti bharri ankon ke bare mein sunte hee mar gaye !!? arre baba, phir 'knight' in armor kaisse banoge !?


Aab masti is masti yaar... good ho ke bad. BTW what is good masti and bad masti? Me thinks.. Good masti is ankhoon hi ankhoon mein ishara types and bad masti is "EVERYTHING GOES". Kya ARCH... Yehi naa..

yup, u r right, masti is masti.. so.. teere nazar dekhenge, zakme jigar dekhenge

[Arch]

uh,oh ! something went wrong here w/ my post.

[Badmash fixed Arch's post]

Badmashi mera kaam hain,
Asli_badmash mera naam hai. Kya?

yup. u r right. dikhaa tho rahe ho, na apni badmaashi. poori apni naam par jathe hai aap !

I think the guys have it tougher in the world.

for example :
1. Guys have to stand in a longer line at the banks, the ladies line is always short. You know how frustrating it is when you have been standing in the line for an hour and you see a lady, matakte hui madam saab tashrif layiengi or phat se kaam ho jayega. Hum saab kya itne time se jo khade hain. Kya hum insaan nahin hai.

bandar ke kaam aap jo karte hai, aur ulta humse poochete hai ke aap insaan hai yah nahin !!

BTW, yeah, lol, I remember. when we'd stand in the line, a short one at that, aur aap logon ki laaammmbi si, 'sister, sister, ek ticket hamare liyye bhi lenna sister, thank you sister' and a widest,cutest yet stupidest (how do u guys manage all the 3 in one ) smile dedethe the.

2. Bus mein people get up to give you women seats. Nobody ever did that to me.

hey.hey.hey. Comeon you did accept that you 'are' chivolrous. Period. Moreover, it shud b a pleasure to be able to do that, y'kno, jeez.

3. Bus ka stop na ho, tab bhi ek smile maara or bus beech road mein ruk jaati hai. And for guys the driver(dumb guy) doesnt stop at the designated stops.

he.he.he yeah, u r so very right. and you know what, asli, we wud enjoy it so much. it used to b a simple wow. and they wud allow us to stand right beside or behind the drivers' so that we dont have to be amongst the whole lot of people. they even would stop right by our whereever we needed to get down. AaHaa. those were the days.

there are many more examples.. But I am not going to cite them all. I guess you get the point.

oh, i wish you gave some more examples.. they are such sweet memories..

Women talk about equality when it suits them.

arre yaar, kyon nahin? dont you choose what ever is right for you ? We woman are the fledglings in this art of equality, asli. At times we go out of the boundries and then get back to the other extreme. We have to learn to balance.

Baaki samay they are damesels in distress and they expect us to be knight in shinning armours.

hey. dont you like it when we are in distress and yourselves to be the knights in your shinning armours ? Such romantic thought. Oh, well, that's where it is I guess, just as a romantic thought.

When guys are in trouble where is our "joan of arc" then you women dont even look at us. We are supposed to fight our way back on our own.

as Joan of Arc we wud love to be and most often we are but you know what? A Man is a Man is a Man for he is ABLE to fight his own way back. and that's what is being a knight all about.

Hai maar dala re.. ein masti bhari aankhon ne.. Jao jao doctor ko bulao.. lagta hai mera time khatam eis dharti paar. Kya pata tha ARCH ki masti bhari aankhon mein itna naasha hai ke, eik nazar main hi... khalas..

In aankhon ki masti ke ek mastane tho aap nikle, binna dekhe hee !!?
bus,kissi ladki ki masti bharri ankon ke bare mein sunte hee mar gaye !!? arre baba, phir 'knight' in armor kaisse banoge !?

Aab masti is masti yaar... good ho ke bad. BTW what is good masti and bad masti? Me thinks.. Good masti is ankhoon hi ankhoon mein ishara types and bad masti is "EVERYTHING GOES". Kya ARCH... Yehi naa..

yup, u r right, masti is masti.. so.. teere nazar dekhenge, zakme jigar dekhenge

[asli_badmash]

bandar ke kaam haap jo karte hai, aur ulta humse poochete hai ke aap insaan hai yah nahin !!

You mean I am of class SIMIAN. I thought my kind had evolved past the to homo Eructus phase(Dont get any ideas... No not the gay kind of HOMO), maybe I should reconsider the theory of evolution.

hey.hey.hey. Comeon you did accept that you 'are' chivolrous. Period. Moreover, it shud b a pleasure to be able to do that, y'kno, jeez.

yup it feels good, but you know lets be practical... Chivalry has a price. The kight always doesnt get the flowers from the dame. Sometimes he ends up on the wrong side of the shoe sole. I mean the intentions are right, but women being para-super-noid they think we want something in return. Usually its just a smile and maybe a thank you. But instead women give a whack or a sly comment... "Kya maan behen nahin hai kya ghar mein"... Some times I feel like saying.. "haan maan behen to hai par biwi ki zarrorat hai'... Hehehehehe.

Women talk about equality when it suits them.

arre yaar, kyon nahin? dont you choose what ever is right for you ? We woman are the fledglings in this art of equality, asli. At times we go out of the boundries and then get back to the other extreme. We have to learn to balance.

And did I forget to mention, women fight unfair. Make unfair points just to win an argument.

hey. dont you like it when we are in distress and yourselves to be the knights in your shinning armours ? Such romantic thought. Oh, well, that's where it is I guess, just as a romantic thought.

I used to think like this. Ending up on the wrong side of the shoe fixed the romance in me. Now I offer help and run for cover.... Literally, specially when its a woman. I guess I have discovered the pleasure of being an anonymous "Knight" in shining armour. Much safer this way. Even Krishna said in Geeta.. "Karam kar.. karam ke phal(fruit) ki ichcha na kar". So moi has now given up on collecting the returns.

In aankhon ki masti ke ek mastane tho aap nikle, binna dekhe hee !!?
bus,kissi ladki ki masti bharri ankon ke bare mein sunte hee mar gaye !!? arre baba, phir 'knight' in armor kaisse banoge !?

Knight to ban jaonga.. Jaani.. Kabhi dikhne-dikhane ki baat bhi karo...

yup, u r right, masti is masti.. so.. teere nazar dekhenge, zakme jigar dekhenge

Aab mera bachana mushkil hai... But I accept the invitation..



Zakhm bhi dekh lena, Teer bhi le lena,

Par jaate-jaate o zaalim apna naam, patta(address), phone number to dete jaana.



Ustadoan se ustadi.. mehengi padegi... Gabbar.



~badmash~

[Arch]

[quote="asli_badmash......



~badmash~[/quote]



LOL..... Cute comeback, as is expected of u. badmash ! I aint have no time though right now to reply except to read ( and enjoyed ur reply) n post this short one. Have a lovely weeend

[ZC]

good man..... U have THAT in you......

[Arch]

Hey, asli. I am NOT getting the ways some of you guys are quoting and writing your msg's. Can u help me write so, and thanks for having corrected my previous post to what I wanted it to be. That was so sweet of you.

hey ! here is a damsel in distress.

[Arch]

.. and I promise. No the wrong side of the shoe kaa chakkar. aakhir, mein khud khud madath maang rahi hun na !

[Arch]

Hey, asli. I am NOT getting the ways some of you guys are quoting and writing your msg's. Can u help me write so, and thanks for having corrected my previous post to what I wanted it to be. That was so sweet of you.
hey ! here is a damsel in distress.

Wu.hooo, Mayavi was my knight in armour of the day. He came for my rescue. Hey Mayavi, thank you.

[Arch]

And did I forget to mention, women fight unfair. Make unfair points just to win an argument.

Thats a 'privilege' given by a woman to her Man. Its FUN too. Seriously. They say everything is fair in Love and War. So when the woman is in love with her Man, it is fair and when she wanna have a fight, it still stands to be fair since it is WAR that she has declared upon him. so what's the big deal that you are making out of us being unfair !! Sheesh.

asli badmash wrote: Knight to ban jaonga.. Jaani.. Kabhi dikhne-dikhane ki baat bhi karo...

"Ufffff, sharam nahin aati aapko hum se ayese baath karte hue ? "
filmi style mein..

Arch wrote:

yup, u r right, masti is masti.. so.. teere nazar dekhenge, zakme jigar dekhenge

asli badmash wrote: Aab mera bachana mushkil hai... But I accept the invitation..

Zakhm bhi dekh lena, Teer bhi le lena,
Par jaate-jaate o zaalim apna naam, patta(address), phone number to dete jaana.

Ustadoan se ustadi.. mehengi padegi... Gabbar.

aap khud ghabhrate hai humse aankh milaane mein;

khaate hai khasam marrne ki

bus yeh sonch kar humse aankh milaneki;

daraathe hai kahhakar ke kuch mehengi padegi..



phir bhi hamaari zid hai,

aaj hum bhi yeh khasam khaye



ke



teere nazar dehkenge, zakhme jigar dekhenge