Do you agree with this guy?????

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Dr Christopher Seth

"The Trivial Enormities in life"

26 June 1997

Extracts from "The Trivial Enormities in life"











Let us transverse to another topic. The sangfroid displayed by certain individuals in times of crisis has always been a thing of intrigue for me. In my limited experiences, regarding human emotions, I've seen people succumb to the most trivial matters of worry. Then they consequently go to great heights to minimize the trauma within. But then that is not the issue that I would like to dwell upon. The repeated discussions on the nature of depression and its subsequent diversities are rather……depressing.

Let us retain ourselves to the lighter side of such discussions.

The equanimity of certain individuals in the face of frightfully tense situations can be attributed to the fact that within them exists a perpetually indivisible hope that there is always a certain third solution to a problem that could, in full optimism, have only two solutions. But then how does one arrive at this third solution?

Different behaviour analysts have different concepts regarding this, and they have numerous degrees that corroborate their claims. I have my fair share of degrees but I let my rather rudimentary studies ascertain my capabilities. Anyway, here is what I have to say on this matter.

Belief in oneself is the sole strand of hope, one can hold onto, in the time of trying circumstances. When things start to look bleak, solace can be found within and the real worth of it is enhanced by the lack of understanding displayed by people around us.

But then, there are always our "best friends", our confidantes. But how does one confide in them the emotions that we, ourselves, are not so sure off. Maybe discussing it with them helps. But then their understanding of these emotions is their own. The emotions concern you, only because they are yours, the analysis being based on your friend's understanding, which may not be quite of your wavelength. Discussing it with friends is only a way of coming to a clearer understanding of the problem at hand. But the solution lies within you. Careful analysis of your conflicting emotions will lead you to the right path on untangling the mess within you.

Taking into account the individual ideologies of the people comprising a problem also helps in certain situations. One must approach a problem from three sides, your side, their side and then rationale's side.

As long as there is life, there is hope and as long as there is hope, there is a solution. It is a common cliché that a problem is a problem because it has a solution, for a problem without a solution is nothing but politics.



Before I launch in to yet another seemingly boring analysis, this time on the concept of Politics, let me discontinue.

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hi. you know I have noticed it myselfand more so in me.

I feel some are originally comfortable with problems. I dont know if this type of behaviour has been studied into but I'll ell you wat.

For some people problems and solving tem gives a sense of their relevency to their mind set. like tey feel lost and restless if tey dont face problems. this type of people are very withdrawn and irritable wen all is going fine but are very charged up wen tey face tough time ..Nalini

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problems are the hurdles in the life-race everyone faces..

one needs to clear them giving it their best shot

atleast, thats my philosophy