Our turn...........What do guys look for in girls?

by **Helen of Troy !** » Sun Apr 28, 2002 12:30 am

This topic is open to all decent guys...... , so give us the dope........
PS If u guys are going to type \'good looks\'/\'beauty\' then wait a sec.........they are as old as the sun.....save them for another day.

by **Suraj** » Mon Apr 29, 2002 12:30 am

Dear,guys Hmmm.. firstly There is a wide range of classification among guys and their expectations for life. right now I donot want to describe all those but I purely reflect what for me it means oK!
Firstly, Iam not in the concept that females are something special and we guys need to do some extraordinary to get into touch, Iam against this So Here I go now! It should be all clear whether the friendship is friendship/attraction towards opposite sex. Depends how U potray oneself. For friendship there is no matter of sexual attraction so... Gender doen\'t make difference in the first instance,And speaking biologically guy will always be sexual sprouted comparatively more than a female and so naturally he goes fo rit, but later knowing his limits and human ,moral values controls them and most of them are driven by those instincts towards females but there are quite a few who never care for those, it does n\'t mean that they are something low in sexual aspirations infact they are much more romantic when compared to earlier ones. A gentle and broad minded guy never thinks of having fun in his own way by deceiving a girl the way he can instead he puts forward the life option to feel the life in every walk of life. For now I end up here. If at all hurt anyone\'s feeling , I am not responsible because thisis world and how theman thinks OK! NAd U females have to know this to shape Ur life.

by **tarun** » Mon Apr 29, 2002 12:30 am

hi helen,
well all that i know is a girl who has thoda sa compromising nature and who has the will to take up anything as a challenge and do it , is acceptable to a guy.she need not be good looking or rich for this.

by **princess of wisdom** » Mon Apr 29, 2002 12:30 am

hey tarun! r u sure u wouldn\'t go for looks in a girl? kyun phenkte ho yaar?bahut philosophy maar diya!! chill!
hey suraj! aren\'t ur fingers tired. maan! that was an excellent effort. but if this was an essay then ,u would get negative marks coz u haven\'t answered to the q what is asked and instead u have written all the unwanted masala in this world. yo! way to go !

by V. » Tue Apr 30, 2002 12:30 am

3 most important things-
1. honesty
2. honesty
3. honesty.

by V. » Tue Apr 30, 2002 12:30 am

having said the 3 most imp things, oldest and time tested policy for marriages is- to tell a 100 lies to get a marriage performed! We cant get away from that.

by **tushar** » Tue Apr 30, 2002 12:30 am

Hey Princess...!!
U gonna have a nice view abt it ,I guess!! Cmon let us all know!

by **Helen of Troy !** » Tue Apr 30, 2002 12:30 am

Tarun, COMPROMISING???????.....If what you meant was \"accomodating\" then I get what you are trying to say.........and Princess of Wisdom (PoW ;-)

.....)no offence meant but I think that there are sensible guys left (albeit....a tiny minority).....looks make a difference only at the first instance, don\'t you think so? After that, its the person that counts. I have many friends who\'d vouch for this.

by **maverick** » Tue Apr 30, 2002 12:30 am

You didn\'t hurt anybody\'s feelings but my head sure is reeling!!!...I don\'t mean to make a dig at you but couldn\'t have you been a little more concise?....we are talking about clean, healthy friendship here, aren\'t we?.......and what exactly do u mean by \"he puts forward the life option.......walk of life\" ?

by **sanjiv** » Wed May 01, 2002 12:30 am

i want such a gal , who does not mind my smoking , drinking , moving with other pretty little gals and lastly dont bother me with kids

by pc » Wed May 01, 2002 12:30 am

I look AT girls, but don\'t look FOR anything particular in them. I look FORWARD to them, but again, I don\'t look FOR anything in them.

On a serious note,an ideal girl is one who is not self centric, not egoistic, one who does not believe that the world was created for her sake, one who is mature, sensible, intelligent, charming and attractive. If anybody finds such a girl, please don\'t bother as I would have died of shock.

by **lobo** » Thu May 02, 2002 12:30 am

a basic level of intelligence to understand jokes and crack them too. everything else in life takes care of itself.

by **princess of wisdom** » Fri May 03, 2002 12:30 am

hey guys! ok here i go...
vs idea about it was really funny. but i do agree with helen, looks are just the tip of the iceberg and whats beneath is what counts. right! i do agree 100% with maverick. hey tushar.. what do u wanna know mate?

by **princess of wisdom** » Fri May 03, 2002 12:30 am

hey pc! well... u know what? i think u\'ll make a very good shayar!;-) anywayz, plz tell me when, u do look for such a girl do u guys ever loook at urselves(maybe in the mirror - of course no offence meant! hhehhe)and i think that if u want a rose u gotta be a thorn orotherwise.... right? thats how the world runs!!! i can see i havewritten loads of crap! but hope u guys can read through it without getting upset. ;-)

by **Awesome** » Sat May 04, 2002 12:30 am

What to guys look for...everything! Just like girls do. But to go a bit further and not to sound shallow, looks do play a strong role (looks fade over time, but partners in life should do what they can to stay looking as good as they can for each other, but not get hellbentover on it). I don\'t know about other guys, but having a pretty girl by my side would sure keep me from checkin out any other girl that walks by. But that\'s the aesthetic aspect of it...more importantly so, guys look for girls with energy, patience, ability to love his parents as she does her own (she\'d better love her own), have a level of sharam(not looking to flaunt), and be God-conscience (regardless of religion). Guys want a girl that will be their best friend. Also, guys can\'t stand girls that get jealous of one another. Only shallow guys want shallow girls....and guys should know that they will never understand girls...and a guy that says he does, he\'s lying. Girls are very complex and sensitive in nature, and guys have to accept that before they seriously start looking for a girl to spend the rest of their life with. Anyway, maybe I shoulda given more thought to my answer, cause now that I think about it the simple answer to this question is…different things….what one guy wants, is different from another, and from what I’ve seen, guys want things all over the map. Sorry, my answer didn’t do much for ya.

by **VERITY** » Sun May 05, 2002 12:30 am

With time, the skin will be less
tighter, the looks will wane,and
the infatuations will pass. So, here is the dope for you: the most
important thing according to me-
companionship!!

by pc » Sun May 05, 2002 12:30 am

Dear princess of wisdom (sic!),

A rose is as good as its fragrance and lasts as long as its fragrance lasts. i am sure you don\'t want to compare a girl to a rose, and a guy to a thorn.

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