These \'changes of thinking\' of general american public do not make National or International news since these are not sensational enough, incidentally.
This is a letter written by an American father to a Radio talk show host. hosting for the past 25 years,has 300 stations of 12 million listeners, did her Phd in physiolgy; is a licenced marraige, child and family therapist, is a faculty at 3 well known universities; an author of several books which were on \'New york Times\' best sellers list.
I am giving the radio talk show hosts\' extensive information for us to know the authenticity of what she could be saying to her listenrs. The rest is you choice:
Dear Dr. Laura,
In August of 1998, my wife and I graduated from college. Our second son was born the day we graduated. We took a leap of faith and moved from the town we lived in to another town closer to Salt Lake City (figuring a job would be easier to find nearer the big city). It took about a month to find a job. I was desperate for a job and took the first one that came up. I worked for a well known package delivery company. I traveled Sunday through Friday or Saturday most of the time. I was home usually three or four days a month (just long enough to do the laundry).
In my travels, I did a lot of driving. Pretty soon I got bored listening to music stations and having to hear the same thing over and over again. So I tuned to the AM stations and found you. Listening to you made me feel good because my wife had chosen to be a stay at home mom way before we had ever met. This was her choice and I was very happy with it. She is our kids’ mom and it is the best thing that could have ever happened in the kids’ lives.
As I listened to you more, I realized that I was not being my kids’ dad. I was gone all of the time working. I realized that I was missing out on the most important times of their lives. I was not going to see my kids say their first words, take their first steps, fly their first kite, etc. Also, the relationship between my wife and I was rocky. She needed someone to be there to support her. She had a 2 year old and a newborn to take care of. She had to do it pretty much as a single mom.
On the freeway between El Paso, TX and Albuquerque, NM, as I was listening to your show, I determined that I needed to make a change in my life, for the sake of my family. I prayed that God would help me find a job that would keep me close to home.
When I got home I started looking for a new job and found one almost immediately. I applied and was offered the job. Now I am home every night. I am my kids’ dad and have an excellent relationship with my wife.
We now have three children (a daughter and two sons). I have been home to watch them grow and be a part of their lives. My kids know I love them. My oldest son tells me quite often that he wants to grow up and be a daddy just like me.
Thanks Dr. Laura!
James H