Top 10 REasons to Marry a Hyderabadi

[haawa]

Hello people... i have been challenged by some fellow North American Born Hyderabadi's to compile a list of Top 10 Reasons why someone should marry a Hyderabadi and post it on http://www.hyderabadmatrimony.com/



I would say Reason #1 is - The Food ... If its not Hyderabadi Biryani then its just Palow



Can I get some help in other reasons... thanks

[Alexis]

Hey Haawa,



Hyderabadis are known to be hospitable, warm, and friendly. What better reason would you need?

[ycr007]

The Laidback Attitude of Hyderabadis Will be a Very Good Reason for Getting Married to a Hyderabadi

[mark]

for a visa





Really weird topic BTW

[fl]

dialect

will never get bored listening to one

[CtrlAltDel]

we are hyderabadies....



thats enuf reason

[betty]

we are hyderabadies....

thats enuf reason

Err...enough reason you mean, not to marry one?

[rock_26iin]

we are hyderabadies....

thats enuf reason

Err...enough reason you mean, not to marry one?

why such a -ve attitude?

[fl]

we are hyderabadies....

thats enuf reason

Err...enough reason you mean, not to marry one?

did u marry one :-S

[enriquee]

1. hyderabadi biryani

2.friendly nature

3.compatible with all

4.Hyderabad is a grt place to live( u may setle there with ur life partner)

hhmmmm dats wat i can tell...

[Mayavi Morpheus]

3.compatible with all

I am not sure if thats a great virtue

[haawa]

for a visa


Really weird topic BTW

Visa to which place?



Not a weird topic... i'm serious ... these kids here.., they are hyderabadi but they can marry punjabi, gujrati, pakistani etc... they seriously want to know why they should marry hyderabadi... What is the benifit.. So i am asking for all your widsom.. to guide our young ones..

[CtrlAltDel]

whts wrong if they marry non-hyderabadi?

[Betty]

for a visa


Really weird topic BTW

Visa to which place?

Not a weird topic... i'm serious ... these kids here.., they are hyderabadi but they can marry punjabi, gujrati, pakistani etc... they seriously want to know why they should marry hyderabadi... What is the benifit.. So i am asking for all your widsom.. to guide our young ones..

Your question seemed to be more like an invitation for answers akin to an ad to all poeple in the world of all communities to marry hyderabadis...so, in that case, I agree with mark about this being a weird topic.



However, after your clarification, the context is slightly changed.



The reason that a Hyderabadi should marry a hyderabadi is the same as why people of a community should marry a person from the same community....i.e. it makes life easier as parents don't oppose them and 'well-wishers' don't eat their heads later about how their spouse would not have done anything wrong had he/she been from the same community . You can also add to that the other usual benefits like lack of language barriers, no cultural clashes and if some tastes can be linked to language/community (like hyderabadis liking biryani and bengalis idolizing Tagore), then those tastes would match...



In any case, I still don't see why you want to brain-wash young people to stick to their community... isn't the world becoming a 'global village'?

[Sharjeel]

The reason that a Hyderabadi should marry a hyderabadi is the same as why people of a community should marry a person from the same community....i.e. it makes life easier as parents don't oppose them and 'well-wishers' don't eat their heads later about how their spouse would not have done anything wrong had he/she been from the same community . You can also add to that the other usual benefits like lack of language barriers, no cultural clashes and if some tastes can be linked to language/community (like hyderabadis liking biryani and bengalis idolizing Tagore), then those tastes would match...

In any case, I still don't see why you want to brain-wash young people to stick to their community... isn't the world becoming a 'global village'?

Are you not contradicting yourself? you may not be, but seems like that from the way you wrote.



I agree with your last paragraph. If we just keep marrying within our community, how do we expect to introduce new people to our community? That was the main reason for inter-community marraiges in the old times.



I can write a long para on it, but the mesage is clear enuff anyway.

[Betty]

The reason that a Hyderabadi should marry a hyderabadi is the same as why people of a community should marry a person from the same community....
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In any case, I still don't see why you want to brain-wash young people to stick to their community... isn't the world becoming a 'global village'?

Are you not contradicting yourself? you may not be, but seems like that from the way you wrote.

No, I am not contradicting myself...



I outlined to her the benefits of inter-community marriage as I know of as she needed them to tell the young hyderabadis who live outside.



Then, I said, that I personally don't support people being 'brain-washed' to marry within their community...what i mean to say is that:



1. marriage is a personal choice



2. So, people shd be allowed to choose which person they want to marry, irrespective of community.



3. There are benefits of marrying within the community but that does not actually outweigh the benefits of marrying outside it.



Hope I am clear ...maybe my can-see-both-sides-of-the-arguement stand was a little confusing...

[Vishrasayan]

one way of looking at this...........



IF........



The kids in question are biased about marrying a Hyderabadi & this stems out of the feeling that they know all about Hyderabadis’ as their folks came from there & hence "dont' we know how these chaps are " - the problem of 'familiarity breeding contempt'



for this I would say;



desist generalizing & typecasting a whole city/ region/ community - be more open & non-judgemental



while familiarity breeds’ contempt, ignorance is bliss ! - no wonder the 'others' always look more attractive & exotic - go easy on this potential pitfall.......grass on the other side always looks greener...



BUT........



finally, in these times of equal opportunity, evaluate all on the same platform non-hyderabadi, hyderabadi, or anyone else



vasudhaika kutumbakam - amen..

[Sharjeel]

The reason that a Hyderabadi should marry a hyderabadi is the same as why people of a community should marry a person from the same community....
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In any case, I still don't see why you want to brain-wash young people to stick to their community... isn't the world becoming a 'global village'?

Are you not contradicting yourself? you may not be, but seems like that from the way you wrote.

Hope I am clear ...maybe my can-see-both-sides-of-the-arguement stand was a little confusing...

Exactly No harm done.

3. There are benefits of marrying within the community but that does not actually outweigh the benefits of marrying outside it.

took the words outta my mouth.



Why do people want to go with the same old genes, habits, looks. Gotta inject fresh genes ...

[haawa]

The reason that a Hyderabadi should marry a hyderabadi is the same as why people of a community should marry a person from the same community....
...
...
In any case, I still don't see why you want to brain-wash young people to stick to their community... isn't the world becoming a 'global village'?

Are you not contradicting yourself? you may not be, but seems like that from the way you wrote.

Hope I am clear ...maybe my can-see-both-sides-of-the-arguement stand was a little confusing...

Exactly No harm done.

3. There are benefits of marrying within the community but that does not actually outweigh the benefits of marrying outside it.

took the words outta my mouth.

Why do people want to go with the same old genes, habits, looks. Gotta inject fresh genes ...

WOW..

i think i hit a few nerves...

please understand.. i am not against people of diffrent backgrounds getting married... i do not beleive in brain washing kids... only educating them.. this is not to convince kids that they should only marry hyderabadi;s ..



rather to change their attitude of :



"Yuck! I would never marry a Hyderabadi"



this comming from kids with the a hydro background.. they don't understand that in saying this they are putting themselves down .. I would like to show them that its not so bad... i know .. i use to think like them myself 10 years ago.. its a very misleading attitude.

[fl]

so many ppl are actually concerned abt me

[Alexis]

"Yuck! I would never marry a Hyderabadi" ????



Whats with that kind of statement? As though Hyderabadis are some sort of faulty or tainted breed of humans. (Not that humans are "breeds", but you know what I mean).



Im proud to be a Hyderabadi and feel blessed to have married one too.

[Vishrasayan]

hey Haawa, hope you read my long post above...



in short....if the ABCDs say WHY? ask WHY NOT?!!

[Xeno]

Hello people... i have been challenged by some fellow North American Born Hyderabadi's to compile a list of Top 10 Reasons why someone should marry a Hyderabadi and post it on http://www.hyderabadmatrimony.com/

I would say Reason #1 is - The Food ... If its not Hyderabadi Biryani then its just Palow

Can I get some help in other reasons... thanks

Some of the primary reasons to marry a Hyderabadi girl.



1) Hyderabadi girls are beautiful.



2) They are very well educated ,easy to find doctor or engineer(if you are lucky enough she will be religious too).



3) They are great cooks ,Biryani is taken granted for ,apart from from that there are many other authentic Hyderabadi dishes which you wont miss when you move out from hyderabad.



4) Not to mention ,the person marying her will also be a Hyderabadi.



From a practical point of view these resons by themselves are convincing enough to make up one's mind.

[Kris]

1. Hyderabadis are really hot!

Temperatures sore above 45c and we can still take it.



2. Hyderabadis have broad thinking.

Look at the main roads - they are all so wide.



3. Hyderabadis stand the maximum chance of getting a visa.

We have assigned that responsibility to our visa God.



4. Hyderabadis can make people flat!

We now find some houses also being converted to flats.



5. Hyderabadis can make cuisines that makes people stand in queues.

Biryani is a classic example for which Bill Clinton also queued up.



6. Hyderabadis are experienced professionals.

Unemployed also can teach employers a lesson (or two) with atleast 2+ years work experience.



7. Hyderabadis are great sportsmen.

We usually sport a beard or moustache.



8. Hyderabadis have unity.

Everyone is an individual unit.



9. Hyderabadis are multi-faceted.

We can be Hydera"baddies" for the bad and Hydera"buddies" with the good.



10. Last, but not the least, Hyderabadis are very patient.

We can even compile a 100 reasons without getting bored; if that is what it takes to glorify ourselves!