recognizing the available gal

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Too often, it so happens that you or your friend meets a gal and after a long effort finds that she already has a BF.



When we meet/accost a gal, its really a art to recognize whether she is available[given the fact that gals are too good at not showing any signs that she has a BF, coz she looses attention from a new boy]. I know quite a few of us are good at it to some degree. Any budhhas out there to explain understanding those signals ?! (Well, this availability is for any kinda companionship, lets not tie ourself to sexual availability here).



bhailog, gyan deejeeye! (pl don't think sharing this knowledge will make u redundant)

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Too often, it so happens that you or your friend meets a gal and after a long effort finds that she already has a BF.

When we meet/accost a gal, its really a art to recognize whether she is available[given the fact that gals are too good at not showing any signs that she has a BF, coz she looses attention from a new boy]. I know quite a few of us are good at it to some degree. Any budhhas out there to explain understanding those signals ?! (Well, this availability is for any kinda companionship, lets not tie ourself to sexual availability here).

bhailog, gyan deejeeye! (pl don't think sharing this knowledge will make u redundant)

I'm not a guru / Buddha on this subject, but it seems pretty simple to me.



You know when someone is interested in you, just like you know when it is sunny or rainy. Given that 'she' also has similar faculties, if she responds favorably to you, chances are she's available (unless she lacks morals). If she does not, she's either not available or is not interested.



Btw, never 'accost' anyone. And you need to give more credit to the gals - they dont want anyone else's 'attention' if they already have a BF. The concealing of the relationship is just a matter of privacy, not for the sake of encouraging attention from a new boy, as you have implied.



I'm also amused by the 'long effort' you and your friends have put in. I'm of the opinion that no amount of effort will help, and it might just happen when you are actually putting no effort and just being yourself. Again, like the sun or rain, on which we have no control......