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by ZC » Fri May 28, 2004 9:30 am

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Alexis wrote:I dont think so, ZC. Mein tho doosre ladkiyon se bilkul nahin jalthi. I have no reason to be envious of other girls. I dont lack self-confidence in any aspect of myself. Could be that other girls are wary of me cuz they think Im stuck up? Not that I put out that vibe, Im quite an easy-going and congenial person with no airs or nakhras.
true for ya :D not true for peopel i have seen :D
even i've seen this. most of girls i know are more comfortable with guys rather than with other girls. but such things need not be true for all males. many males are at ease only among other males, but that i suppose, has a lot to do with up-bringing...




thats chemistry, not upbringing........atoms,molecules and bigger molecules and free radicals...... :D
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by Question » Sat May 29, 2004 6:08 am

Well it's been proven before girls/girls cant stand each other most of the time that's why girls are most of the time comfrtable with guys. But guys get along with guys well. Well girls are just bitchy no offense hehe!
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by Alexis » Sat May 29, 2004 6:32 am

Yeah, girls can be bitchy. But not all girls are like that. I know Im not and neither is my sister.



I used to have a best friend, she was Indian too. But I was going out with a guy, and he started two-timing me with her. I found out much later, and obviously dumped both of them.

He had no reason to do what he did. I trusted and seriously adored him.



Now if her boyfriend got fresh with me, I'd put him in his place. What true friend would actually do that to someone who trusted and liked her.



Thats not the reason I gave up on girlfriends though.
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by Question » Sat May 29, 2004 6:37 am

hahah i have expreinced opposite of that..



My last ex who was indian TELUGU b/c of her i chagned this much but anywyas she told me our relationship is getting affecting her school I say that' fine week later she goes and TELLS MY bro that she likes him.. hmm so yah... most girls are bitchyyyyyyy can't ever understand them! No offense hehehe.. :D
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by Alexis » Sat May 29, 2004 9:30 am

Oh, well thats too bad for you. But its better you got rid of her sooner than later. Obviously you werent too attached to her.

A woman has the prerogative to change her mind----but not so viciously.



But for what it was worth, I hope she and your brother are still going strong.
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by Question » Sat May 29, 2004 9:56 am

Ok now that's funny i didn't tell u the whole story but yah I wasn't too attached to her!? yah right it took me 1yr and half to get over her. Also my brother rejected her b/c obviously he felt she was doing somethign wrong. When he rejected her she came back to me saying i sitl luv u but jsut confused thos and that she led me on for 8 months so many times sayin i will be back with u. When i was ready to move on and when she noticed that she used to pull me back saying all mushy gushy stuff. Once she said "When i have i don't want you When i don't have you I want you" so yah hmm yah it was pretty messed up what she did and what i went through! ok.............. now i moved on so it's all goodd (FINALLY)!!!!
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by azazel » Sat May 29, 2004 8:29 pm

:?: u n Black Wizard will b bosom pals whn u get here... :lol:
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by Lucifer » Sat May 29, 2004 8:49 pm

ZC wrote:
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Alexis wrote:I dont think so, ZC. Mein tho doosre ladkiyon se bilkul nahin jalthi. I have no reason to be envious of other girls. I dont lack self-confidence in any aspect of myself. Could be that other girls are wary of me cuz they think Im stuck up? Not that I put out that vibe, Im quite an easy-going and congenial person with no airs or nakhras.
true for ya :D not true for peopel i have seen :D
even i've seen this. most of girls i know are more comfortable with guys rather than with other girls. but such things need not be true for all males. many males are at ease only among other males, but that i suppose, has a lot to do with up-bringing...


thats chemistry, not upbringing........atoms,molecules and bigger molecules and free radicals...... :D




Since we are discussing why women have more guy friends than gal friends, here is the devil's summation. I quote:



'Men kick friendship around like a football, yet it does not seem to crack. Women treat it like a piece of glass and it shatters to pieces.'
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Re: HAHAHA

by CtrlAltDel » Mon May 31, 2004 12:26 am

Question wrote:...Once she said "When i have i don't want you When i don't have you I want you"...
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: i give her full marks for this statement alone...made my day...:lol:
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Re: HAHAHA

by Question » Mon May 31, 2004 1:02 am

CtrlAltDel wrote:
Question wrote:...Once she said "When i have i don't want you When i don't have you I want you"...
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: i give her full marks for this statement alone...made my day...:lol:






now that's no funny allright!??? it hurt me so muchhhhhhhhhh just yahh :twisted:
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by ZC » Mon May 31, 2004 1:27 pm

Lucifer wrote:'Men kick friendship around like a football, yet it does not seem to crack. Women treat it like a piece of glass and it shatters to pieces.'




and its more often....guys fight...coz there a bitch involved somehow, somewhere..........

:roll: :roll: :roll: :shock: :shock: :shock:



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by CtrlAltDel » Mon May 31, 2004 10:21 pm

ZC wrote:Naari nark(HELL) ka dwaar(gate) hain :x :evil: :twisted:
sour grapes eh? :lol: looks like all girls u approached gave u a NO. dont worry bud, dont give up the hunt. kahin na kahin tho ek 'YES'-wali milegi....
wtf? i no longer care if my posts hurt yr feelings :roll:
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by Johnny » Mon May 31, 2004 11:28 pm

Yes Men and Women can be just friends. :) (to whomever it may concern)



PS: My first post in this thread. :roll:
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by Stingrae » Mon May 31, 2004 11:50 pm

Lucifer wrote:Since we are discussing why women have more guy friends than gal friends, here is the devil's summation. I quote:

'Men kick friendship around like a football, yet it does not seem to crack. Women treat it like a piece of glass and it shatters to pieces.'




devil dude...ur talkin abt men,kickin balls ,crackin n shatterin to pieces....ouch.....:?



PS:yeah,my first post too....:|
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by Lucifer » Fri Jun 04, 2004 3:19 pm

ZC wrote:
Lucifer wrote:'Men kick friendship around like a football, yet it does not seem to crack. Women treat it like a piece of glass and it shatters to pieces.'


and its more often....guys fight...coz there a bitch involved somehow, somewhere..........
:roll: :roll: :roll: :shock: :shock: :shock:

Naari nark(HELL) ka dwaar(gate) hain :x :evil: :twisted:




Really? Men fight over women? ZC, didn't you know about the unwritten code of conduct between men?



Thou shalt never covet thy friend's woman.



And, it has worked absolutely fine with me and my guy friends.
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by Alexis » Fri Jun 04, 2004 9:51 pm

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Thou shalt never covet thy friend's woman.

And, it has worked absolutely fine with me and my guy friends.




Why, if youre a real friend, would you want to seduce and woo his girlfriend? And what kind of girl would actually fall for that from her boyfriends friend? Too much drama and the perfect recipe for a successful tragedy.

It all comes down to how strong your relationship is and how seriously youre taking it.
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by Mayavi Morpheus » Sat Jun 05, 2004 3:49 am

Alexis wrote:Why, if youre a real friend, would you want to seduce and woo his girlfriend? And what kind of girl would actually fall for that from her boyfriends friend? Too much drama and the perfect recipe for a successful tragedy.
It all comes down to how strong your relationship is and how seriously youre taking it.




I think lucifer is trying to say the same thing.

But if you really wanna know how tragic it would be...please contact black wizard. He is the one with that experience :lol:
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by azazel » Sat Jun 05, 2004 1:24 pm

Mayavi Morpheus wrote:But if you really wanna know how tragic it would be...please contact black wizard. He is the one with that experience :lol:




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by Bimbette » Sat Jun 05, 2004 10:28 pm

ZC wrote:
Lucifer wrote:'Men kick friendship around like a football, yet it does not seem to crack. Women treat it like a piece of glass and it shatters to pieces.'


and its more often....guys fight...coz there a bitch involved somehow, somewhere..........
:roll: :roll: :roll: :shock: :shock: :shock:

Naari nark(HELL) ka dwaar(gate) hain :x :evil: :twisted:






Dunno if u had any bad experiences but thats NO way to address a lady.
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by friends » Sat Jun 05, 2004 10:36 pm

what the heck is JUST FRIENDS



there wont be anybody who are JUST FRIENDS, there'll be some kinda attarction betwwen them and every attarction need not lead to sex



whay dont you just question that 'why can't a man and woman be close without sex?'
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by Lucifer » Sun Jun 06, 2004 1:03 pm

Bimbette wrote:Dunno if u had any bad experiences but thats NO way to address a lady.




She is right, you know. Why would you degrade a bitch by comparing her to a woman? :lol:



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by sehwag_ka_baap » Sun Jun 06, 2004 4:27 pm

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by Lucifer » Sun Jun 06, 2004 5:14 pm

sehwag_ka_baap wrote:Yes they can




No offence, but which planet do these guys come from anyway? 'Yes, they can'? Really, why did these spammers put in so much effort anyway?
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by black wizard » Mon Jun 07, 2004 12:57 am

yeh thread ku marjaana chaahiye.
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by akhilis2cool » Mon Jun 07, 2004 10:20 am

black wizard wrote:yeh thread ku marjaana chaahiye.




absolutely kurreccttt



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