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by ZC » Wed May 05, 2004 9:04 am

shayad haan, shayad na.........





naa re na na 50:50 :roll: :roll:
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by justforfun » Wed May 05, 2004 10:47 am

mostly na... little bit hain....
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by CtrlAltDel » Fri May 07, 2004 7:20 am

shall we finally consider this topic buried...till its dug up by someone eons later... :roll:
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by The Crackednut » Fri May 07, 2004 1:15 pm

why oh.... why, did this thread on relations have to veer away to a thread on homosexuality?? And damn... it's infested with perveted male members with only single-digit contributions by the females!! :P :lol:



oye, budding psychologist... what do u have to say about the mentality of these guys??
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by Lucifer » Fri May 07, 2004 2:17 pm

Ask bnot whether men and women can be just friends. Ask why they would want to limit their relationship to just that. :) :P
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by justforfun » Fri May 07, 2004 4:27 pm

Lucifer wrote:Ask bnot whether men and women can be just friends. Ask why they would want to limit their relationship to just that. :) :P




Whom to ask Man or Woman? U know the ans who wants what first ... :evil:
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by Lucifer » Fri May 07, 2004 4:45 pm

justforfun, you have asked a very pertinent question. If there was an answer to it...
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by Bimbette » Sat May 15, 2004 5:01 pm

Can they be platonic friends u mean ? Ummmmm it sure does depend on the maturity of the two people involved.



There are a couple of idiots on both sides who misconstrue genuine friendship.
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by Lucifer » Sat May 15, 2004 7:36 pm

Bimbette wrote:Can they be platonic friends u mean ? Ummmmm it sure does depend on the maturity of the two people involved.

There are a couple of idiots on both sides who misconstrue genuine friendship.




Like I said, what is wrong in misconstruing friendship?

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by Rabab » Tue May 18, 2004 6:32 am

Sure They Can!!
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by Mayavi Morpheus » Tue May 18, 2004 7:09 am

Rabab wrote:Sure They Can!!


Wow. Why didnt anyone think of this for an answer, you spammers wrote two pages worth of crap and didnt reach a conclusion yet :evil: Way to go rabab!
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by Jaszalcatraz » Tue May 18, 2004 1:13 pm

Sure they can?? I disagree :p
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by Bimbette » Thu May 20, 2004 8:43 pm

[Like I said, what is wrong in misconstruing friendship?

*is gloomy because knows no women who have ever done that to him*[/quote]



What if the other person doesn't think on the same lines ?
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by Stingrae? » Thu May 20, 2004 9:31 pm

Friendship is sooo possible. Jus ,as someone here said,as long as both of 'em are mature enough. Its even easier when both of 'em are goin out wit somebody else... or if they said "friends" are ex'es!! dats d simplest situation to stay friends.....or wait...maybe not....duh







ok...reality check....WHY THE HELL AM I POSTIN HERE!?



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by Alexis. » Thu May 27, 2004 8:46 am

Id like to believe that a hetero man and hetero woman can be just friends. They really can. It depends on the age and maturity of the two involved though.

Its hard when youre at that age where hormones are raging and all you want is instant gratification. (<---but isnt that the case with guys at any age! J/k)



I have many guy friends. Its completely platonic and there are no undercurrents of any lovey-dovey crap. Well, there were a couple of instances where they wanted to "take the friendship to another level". But I stopped that notion dead in its tracks.

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by CtrlAltDel » Thu May 27, 2004 9:47 am

well, i have lots of 'Platonic' girl friends...in fact they out number my guy friends...

we dont feel any strange 'urges' when we meet....and their boyfriends/hubbies n my wife are OK with it...
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by u know who » Thu May 27, 2004 11:20 am

ek ladki ko ghar bejho bhol tha hun :D
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by Stingrae » Thu May 27, 2004 1:17 pm

u know who wrote:ek ladki ko ghar bejho bhol tha hun :D




for entirely platonic purposes rite?:?
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by CtrlAltDel » Thu May 27, 2004 1:48 pm

u know who wrote:ek ladki ko ghar bejho bhol tha hun :D
sounds like u r ordering for an 'escort' from yr friendly neighborhood pimp... :lol: :lol:
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by ZC » Thu May 27, 2004 1:53 pm

CtrlAltDel wrote:
u know who wrote:ek ladki ko ghar bejho bhol tha hun :D
sounds like u r ordering for an 'escort' from yr friendly neighborhood pimp... :lol: :lol:




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by Alexis. » Thu May 27, 2004 10:14 pm

CAD, my guy friends outnumber my girl-friends too. I communicate and get along with guys better, I dont know why. I can always expect the guys to be totally honest with me. Theyre good friends----kick-back and cool, yet they treat me like a lady. Its all good.
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by ZC » Fri May 28, 2004 7:44 am

Alexis. wrote:CAD, my guy friends outnumber my girl-friends too. I communicate and get along with guys better, I dont know why. I can always expect the guys to be totally honest with me. Theyre good friends----kick-back and cool, yet they treat me like a lady. Its all good.




that usually is teh case for most females i have seen......... :D :D



probably...doosre ladki-yon se jalthe hain :roll: :roll: :roll: baath hi nahin kar-the hain :roll: :roll: :roll: thats also true in gals i have seen :lol: :lol:
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by Alexis » Fri May 28, 2004 8:39 am

I dont think so, ZC. Mein tho doosre ladkiyon se bilkul nahin jalthi. I have no reason to be envious of other girls. I dont lack self-confidence in any aspect of myself. Could be that other girls are wary of me cuz they think Im stuck up? Not that I put out that vibe, Im quite an easy-going and congenial person with no airs or nakhras.
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by ZC » Fri May 28, 2004 8:40 am

Alexis wrote:I dont think so, ZC. Mein tho doosre ladkiyon se bilkul nahin jalthi. I have no reason to be envious of other girls. I dont lack self-confidence in any aspect of myself. Could be that other girls are wary of me cuz they think Im stuck up? Not that I put out that vibe, Im quite an easy-going and congenial person with no airs or nakhras.




true for ya :D not true for peopel i have seen :D
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by CtrlAltDel » Fri May 28, 2004 9:10 am

ZC wrote:
Alexis wrote:I dont think so, ZC. Mein tho doosre ladkiyon se bilkul nahin jalthi. I have no reason to be envious of other girls. I dont lack self-confidence in any aspect of myself. Could be that other girls are wary of me cuz they think Im stuck up? Not that I put out that vibe, Im quite an easy-going and congenial person with no airs or nakhras.
true for ya :D not true for peopel i have seen :D
even i've seen this. most of girls i know are more comfortable with guys rather than with other girls. but such things need not be true for all males. many males are at ease only among other males, but that i suppose, has a lot to do with up-bringing...
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