will such a woman/lady would want to get married again and think of starting a new life again......
or will she prefer to live isolation
Will single eligible women be bothered by men?
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Mayavi Morpheus wrote:It was almost dead, I resussicated it.
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[quote="ZC"]i have a question:
will such a woman/lady would want to get married again and think of starting a new life again......
or will she prefer to live isolation[/quote]
If she is a person who is optimistic, yes, she will go ahead and try again, after some time to get over the 'fear', in case she is a divorcee/ the 'trauma' in case she is a widow.
If she had been a single person by choice, she may want to get married when and if she realises that having a companion, more so in old age is of utmost natural need.
If she does not heed the nature calling, and be pessimistic, she will turn into one sorry old woman who bitches about everything and everybody. Sabhi ki jeena haraam kardeggi.
will such a woman/lady would want to get married again and think of starting a new life again......
or will she prefer to live isolation
[/quote]If she is a person who is optimistic, yes, she will go ahead and try again, after some time to get over the 'fear', in case she is a divorcee/ the 'trauma' in case she is a widow.
If she had been a single person by choice, she may want to get married when and if she realises that having a companion, more so in old age is of utmost natural need.
If she does not heed the nature calling, and be pessimistic, she will turn into one sorry old woman who bitches about everything and everybody. Sabhi ki jeena haraam kardeggi.
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Plss stop this yaaar... all the special users acting like newbies.. Grrrrrrrrrr 
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I forgot i am a special user too..
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Good that you did so MM. Was reading through this and could see so many perceptions that have been ingrained so strongly in people's minds. Wanted to get a few points across.
1. Why is it that men chasing after women (or boys after girls or any other permutation with males chasing females) gets so much attention while the opposite case never does? We all know that women too crave for companionship and that they are equally unscrupulous when it comes to "ACQUIRING" males of their choice.
2. If a male does show some interest in a woman that may be beyond general acquaintance, why does the woman always assume that he is after her for "SEX"?
3. What's wrong with pre-marital sex with mutual consent? After all, societal rules are not above human beings. As long as an affair between a male and a female doesn't cause any harm or inconvenience to anyone and is not veering away the minds of the involved parties away from higher priorities, I don't think anyone should object to them.
1. Why is it that men chasing after women (or boys after girls or any other permutation with males chasing females) gets so much attention while the opposite case never does? We all know that women too crave for companionship and that they are equally unscrupulous when it comes to "ACQUIRING" males of their choice.
2. If a male does show some interest in a woman that may be beyond general acquaintance, why does the woman always assume that he is after her for "SEX"?
3. What's wrong with pre-marital sex with mutual consent? After all, societal rules are not above human beings. As long as an affair between a male and a female doesn't cause any harm or inconvenience to anyone and is not veering away the minds of the involved parties away from higher priorities, I don't think anyone should object to them.
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Johnny wrote:Plss stop this yaaar... all the special users acting like newbies.. Grrrrrrrrrr
Everything has a purpose johnny
Gita saransh (tumhare baaju galli waali gita nahi).Habitual:
1. Why is it that men chasing after women (or boys after girls or any other permutation with males chasing females) gets so much attention while the opposite case never does
'cos they are few and far between. In most of the cases its men after women. How often do you see a girl whistling and winking at a guy or trying to touch him in a rush bus or wait in by-lanes and stalk a guy?
2. If a male does show some interest in a woman that may be beyond general acquaintance, why does the woman always assume that he is after her for "SEX"?
They prepare for the worst case scenario probably. We are a closed society with little or no interaction between opposite sex except in family, and no concept of dating. So, its common for guys to think of the three letter word when they see a girl and girls know it. So, they are cautious. It also depends on how the guy approaches the female.
JMHO, female junta can explain it better.
3. What's wrong with pre-marital sex with mutual consent
Nothing. Its more common than we think it is.
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damn 
i shall try to stay away from this DB
or else its gonna be fu**ing with mah head!
i shall try to stay away from this DB
or else its gonna be fu**ing with mah head!
I ran into my ex-girlfriend the other day... I backed up and ran into her again... I miss her sometimes...
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women r not from mars
it is true that men r on prowl for single AVAILABLE ladies.but to say that only men ogle for sex and female always resist it is not fair.....i can say that females too have the same feeling...their body too requires physical pleasures.....its time we men accept womens sexuality
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Ranu wrote:Anything common is NOT wrong, MM ?
Not necessarily, but if its a common practice it means that those who are practicing it think its right. It only effects those two people, so it is not a social wrong like dowry (which is also a common practice but wrong practice). What exactly is the difference between premartial sex and sex after marriage? Does anything change if the knot is tied or Nikkah is said? IMO there is mutual consent in premartial sex which may not be there in sex after marriage, and sex without consent is rape.
Azazel: If I create new ID's to post, how can Mayavi's post count increase?
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The harmones run rampant from early teens into mid 20's in both males and females. Any sexual activity, with or without the safety precautions will NOT take care of unwanted pregnancies and sexual diseases.
The rate of failure of safety precautions is very high, more so during the initial stages of usage of these methods by the yougsters.
The result being a pregnancy and or a sexual disease, maybe for life. A simple method that we think we can undergo is MTP or Medical Termination of Pregnancy. For more info on how the baby is removed from the uterus during the MTP can be heard and watched at http://www.silentscream.org
The impact of such a procedure on the woman is life long, both physically and pyschologically. The woman is a woman, afterall. She is called a mother for some reason, 'motherly' is a word by itself, for a reason. The man, if he is told, at all, will also have his own share of guilt for the rest of his life, mainly in the later stages of his life when he has his first child or whenever he spends time with his live children.
This will not hold good if the people are die-hards at wanting to have sex and have pregnancies and abortions and sexual diseases and the memories.
Just a thought.
The rate of failure of safety precautions is very high, more so during the initial stages of usage of these methods by the yougsters.
The result being a pregnancy and or a sexual disease, maybe for life. A simple method that we think we can undergo is MTP or Medical Termination of Pregnancy. For more info on how the baby is removed from the uterus during the MTP can be heard and watched at http://www.silentscream.org
The impact of such a procedure on the woman is life long, both physically and pyschologically. The woman is a woman, afterall. She is called a mother for some reason, 'motherly' is a word by itself, for a reason. The man, if he is told, at all, will also have his own share of guilt for the rest of his life, mainly in the later stages of his life when he has his first child or whenever he spends time with his live children.
This will not hold good if the people are die-hards at wanting to have sex and have pregnancies and abortions and sexual diseases and the memories.
Just a thought. - Ranu
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MTP Procedure
Its the first time today that I too have read the total procedure and it has made me feel so pained to the bones for all these babies and the parents.
excerpts from http://www.silentscream.org
The abortionist first introduces the most slender of these instruments to dilate the cervix, turns the instrument ...
He will then takes the instrument known .......
inserted through the dilated cervix, up into the uterus and will then puncture the sack surrounding the child, allowing the amniotic fluid to escape. The instrument then will come into direct contact with the child and with a pressure of approximately 55 or so millimeters of mercury, applied to the end of this instrument as it is attached to a long, thick suction tubing at this end and to the abortion instrumentation, that is the machine, at the other end, the suction suction tip will then begin to tear the child apart."
The pieces of the body are torn away. One by one until finally all that remains are the shards of the body and the heads itself. The head will be too large to come through this instrument itself. This will necessitate the introduction of this instrument called a polyp forceps into the uterus through the already dilated cervix and the abortionist will then attempt to grasp the free floating head of the child in the uterus between the rings of this instrument. The head is then crushed, the contents of the head removed, and finally the bones of the head, and the abortion is then effectively at an end."
excerpts from http://www.silentscream.org
The abortionist first introduces the most slender of these instruments to dilate the cervix, turns the instrument ...
He will then takes the instrument known .......
inserted through the dilated cervix, up into the uterus and will then puncture the sack surrounding the child, allowing the amniotic fluid to escape. The instrument then will come into direct contact with the child and with a pressure of approximately 55 or so millimeters of mercury, applied to the end of this instrument as it is attached to a long, thick suction tubing at this end and to the abortion instrumentation, that is the machine, at the other end, the suction suction tip will then begin to tear the child apart."
The pieces of the body are torn away. One by one until finally all that remains are the shards of the body and the heads itself. The head will be too large to come through this instrument itself. This will necessitate the introduction of this instrument called a polyp forceps into the uterus through the already dilated cervix and the abortionist will then attempt to grasp the free floating head of the child in the uterus between the rings of this instrument. The head is then crushed, the contents of the head removed, and finally the bones of the head, and the abortion is then effectively at an end."
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Small correction, we are not talking abt teen sex, we are talking abt premarital sex. In teens (<18) one doesnt understand the consequences of it, but 20's is old enough to understand that.
Moreover contraceptives can prevent STD's and pregnancy in most of the cases. Abstinence isnt the best method to prevent spread of STD's, is it?
Moreover contraceptives can prevent STD's and pregnancy in most of the cases. Abstinence isnt the best method to prevent spread of STD's, is it?
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[quote="Mayavi Morpheus"].. we are talking abt premarital sex. In teens (<18) one doesnt understand the consequences of it, but 20's is old enough to understand that. quote]
Are we old enough to understand that, MM ? Sure. If you say so. I found most of your postings to be very informative and intelligent. Lets hope that this observation of yours is similar too.
{quote=Mayavi Morpheus} Moreover contraceptives can prevent STD's and pregnancy in most of the cases. quote}
Yes, that is what is claimed but is it a fact too ? But, how is it that there are so many abortions and abortion clinics, yet ?
[ quote=Mayavi Morpheus] Abstinence isnt the best method to prevent spread of STD's, is it?[/quote
I dunno. I dont abstain myself. I am married
Getting serious about the issue, maybe it is? I know it is easy for me to say when I am Not there anymore, but.. the choice is ours MM. and the choices are very tough. but they do come with consequences.
Believe me, the consequences are painful for the life time.
Are we old enough to understand that, MM ? Sure. If you say so. I found most of your postings to be very informative and intelligent. Lets hope that this observation of yours is similar too.
{quote=Mayavi Morpheus} Moreover contraceptives can prevent STD's and pregnancy in most of the cases. quote}
Yes, that is what is claimed but is it a fact too ? But, how is it that there are so many abortions and abortion clinics, yet ?
[ quote=Mayavi Morpheus] Abstinence isnt the best method to prevent spread of STD's, is it?[/quote
I dunno. I dont abstain myself. I am married
Getting serious about the issue, maybe it is? I know it is easy for me to say when I am Not there anymore, but.. the choice is ours MM. and the choices are very tough. but they do come with consequences.
Believe me, the consequences are painful for the life time.
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If you say so.
Not because I say so, but thats the fact. If 20's is old enough to make career choice, old enough to elect leaders, old enough to marry, then it must be old enough to understand the consequences of sex.
Yes, that is what is claimed but is it a fact too ? But, how is it that there are so many abortions and abortion clinics, yet ?
Each contraceptive technique has its own success/failure rate. The manufacturer specifies that. Fool proof ? No. Effective? Yes.
The number of abortions or abortion clinics is not a measure of the effectiveness of contraceptives. In India the number of abortion clinics is an indication of a social evil - not wanting a female child.
Believe me, the consequences are painful for the life time.
Not if we are carefull. Take any country other than India where premaital sex is common. Compare the stats - number of people indulgin in 'it' with that of abortions, abortions will be negligible percentage.
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Men and women
Let me tell you this, men and women don't need to be friends, atleast before marriage.
Atleast as per my friend who is in US, he mentions that it is rarely that men and women are good friends just for friendship sake.
It always turns for worldly pleasures.
He also mentioned that Indian society doesn't have the rules to punish the friendship if it takes mistrious turns.
Because of dating and pre-marital sex, the entire US and Europe is
full of divorces and father-less babies which is very unheard of in India
where we have lot of culture and tradition for up bringing children.
Based on which, I think Indian system worked fairly well, for protecting
the culture and tradition.
Atleast as per my friend who is in US, he mentions that it is rarely that men and women are good friends just for friendship sake.
It always turns for worldly pleasures.
He also mentioned that Indian society doesn't have the rules to punish the friendship if it takes mistrious turns.
Because of dating and pre-marital sex, the entire US and Europe is
full of divorces and father-less babies which is very unheard of in India
where we have lot of culture and tradition for up bringing children.
Based on which, I think Indian system worked fairly well, for protecting
the culture and tradition.
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dun get into it if u cant handle it..
abstinence does work man, ctrl karo thoda sa..
kahe tensions badaa lena over stuff like this..
the emotional/physical consequences of unwanted pregnancies, abortions.. plus the stigma from the society.. why would anyone in their right mind, go ahead n do this.. everyone takes precautions n whatever, but the consequences cant b prevented when they turn for worse
abstinence does work man, ctrl karo thoda sa..
kahe tensions badaa lena over stuff like this..
the emotional/physical consequences of unwanted pregnancies, abortions.. plus the stigma from the society.. why would anyone in their right mind, go ahead n do this.. everyone takes precautions n whatever, but the consequences cant b prevented when they turn for worse
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azazel wrote:dun get into it if u cant handle it..
abstinence does work man, ctrl karo thoda sa..
kahe tensions badaa lena over stuff like this..
the emotional/physical consequences of unwanted pregnancies, abortions.. plus the stigma from the society.. why would anyone in their right mind, go ahead n do this.. everyone takes precautions n whatever, but the consequences cant b prevented when they turn for worse
Bravo ! Bravo ! rightly said, azazel !
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azazel wrote:dun get into it if u cant handle it..
abstinence does work man, ctrl karo thoda sa..
Virginity is not a virtue nor is a liability. You dont have to lose it just for the sake of losing it or just for experience. But you dont have to 'ctrl' just to be a virgin. Love naturally leads to sex, thats human nature.
Anyway, to each his/her own.
kahe tensions badaa lena over stuff like this..
See ctrl bhai immediately and take a crash course
plus the stigma from the society.. why would anyone in their right mind, go ahead n do this.. everyone takes precautions n whatever, but the consequences cant b prevented when they turn for worse
Right, stay away from it if you dont like but dont impose your opinions on others. If people are doing it with consent, let them do it. Then there will be no 'social stigma' attached to it.
US Experience:
He also mentioned that Indian society doesn't have the rules to punish the friendship if it takes mistrious turns.
You dont have any opinion/experience of urs? Why do you have to quote ur american friend on Indian issues?
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