Is love really blind?

by **fren** » Sat Oct 11, 2003 7:40 pm

Hey why do we say love is blind? When we know we choose our life partner, we rarely fall in love with a stranger. We first know each other then decide whether this person is right or wrong. Yet we say love is blind? Is love really blind???

by **a fan** » Sat Oct 11, 2003 7:43 pm

I salute your romanticism. Keep it up!

by **Jobless** » Sun Oct 12, 2003 7:45 pm

You can choose a life partner but you can\'t \"choose\" to fall in love. If you are deciding whether the person is right or wrong for you, then you\'ve not really \"fallen in love\" with him/her. When you fall in love with the person, you are (usually) blind to his/her shortcomings. You\'ll want to go the whole length with him/her without bothering whether the person is right for you or not.

by ZC » Mon Oct 13, 2003 11:35 am

Love is: sightless, colourless, tasteless, odourless... and SENSELESS ;-)

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by **fren** » Mon Oct 13, 2003 5:44 pm

Hey dude, you are right. No doubt you have pulled up my socks. Haaa!

by **fren** » Mon Oct 13, 2003 5:46 pm

ZC, you are just a genius! Your answer is my question, friend!!! Why??? That\'s what my question is! Try your luck next time.

by **neeraja** » Tue Oct 14, 2003 11:45 am

Hi Fren,
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The reason why they say love is blind is that once you are in love, you would be blind and not see the other important aspects like family background, status of the candidate (he or she could be already married, suppose), etc. The love would turn you blind... It may not be a right match because of the age factor or the religion. Hence, it\'s termed that love is blind...

by **Srinu** » Tue Oct 14, 2003 3:07 pm

Continuing ZC\'s line of thought, love is deaf and dumb too

. But seriously, I think they say love is blind bcos\' once you \"fall\" in love, you don\'t see the faults of your \"loved\" one. Whatever he or she does (to you or to others) you don\'t find it wrong or you find reasons to justify it. Nowadays, it\'s the other way round. Most couples try to find fault with whatever their partner does. May be the youth of the country have opened their eyes in love?

by **Mayavi Morpheus** » Wed Oct 15, 2003 2:11 am

This reminds me of a joke.
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One day during my undergrad, me and some friends skipped a class to watch a movie. We were going to a theater in Narayanguda and were travelling by bus. As usual we were validating Newton\'s first law by hanging on the foot board of an empty bus (styles of Hyderabad) and saw this couple on a bike advertising for Fevicol (Fevicol ka jod, tootegha nahi). I mean, they were sitting too close to each other, to our discomfort. It was a nice sunny day and the sun was going through his afternoon routine of burning us Hyderabadi denizens. I was hanging on the footboard and doing what every other Indian of my age does - staring at this Fevicol couple. And suddenly I observed that this Fevicol couple\'s bike has its head light on full beam! I wondered, why they needed \'head light\' in broad \'day light\'. To that my friend yawned and said, \"Love is blind, poor fella can\'t see the road without head light!\" How true he was. The guy looked like a not so distant relative of Babu Mohan and the gal looked like a Femina Miss India model! Love is really blind.

by **dreamboy** » Wed Oct 15, 2003 3:46 pm

Love is not blind but it makes you blind.

by **fren** » Wed Oct 15, 2003 6:42 pm

Hello, you sound like an expert!!! How many bf\'s do you have and have you ever fallen in true love? It sounds as if you have experienced it a few times. Anyway, you are very close to my feelings.

by **fren** » Wed Oct 15, 2003 6:44 pm

Hi Srinu, which century do you belong to? I mean you have written that now a days the definiion of love has changed. So, which definition do you follow?

by **Srinu** » Wed Oct 15, 2003 11:04 pm

FYI! Basically born in the 20th. Currently in the 21st

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by **weepee** » Thu Oct 16, 2003 12:59 am

Love is like PI - natural, irrational, and very important.

by **weepee** » Thu Oct 16, 2003 1:00 am

Love is not blind - it sees more and not less, but because it sees more it is willing to see less.

by **weepee** » Thu Oct 16, 2003 1:02 am

Love isn\'t blind, it only sees what matters.

by **fren** » Thu Oct 16, 2003 9:56 pm

You are very funny. Don\'t you think we can make a nice couple? I won\'t mind if you proposed to me!

by **fren** » Thu Oct 16, 2003 10:00 pm

What a joke! Ha ha hah haaa haaaaa... Oh! I\'m out of control. Hahaha haaaa...

by **dilruba** » Fri Oct 17, 2003 3:23 pm

Love is blind, but marriage is an eyeopener (so people say!!!). What do you guys think?

by **Srinu** » Fri Oct 17, 2003 5:15 pm

Ha ha! And you call me funny.

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by **Mayavi Morpheus** » Fri Oct 17, 2003 9:10 pm

Please save us from gay love scenes. Take your discussion offline.

by **ex-hydi2** » Fri Oct 17, 2003 9:40 pm

Yes

. Marriage brings out the truth about people!

by **fren** » Fri Oct 17, 2003 10:26 pm

Am sorry, am confused but am not a gya for sure. Haa!

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