Is the cyber-culture good?

by **pavani** » Mon Aug 11, 2003 10:16 am

Recently I found that my BF is seeing X-rated movies on the Internet and chatting dirtily with girls on the Internet. But he says it is okay cuz he is not doing anything physical. I want to take revenge on him by doing similar stuff. Will I be cheating on him if I too indulge in cyber sex?

by **mrk** » Mon Aug 11, 2003 12:07 pm

Pavani thu bahut gusse me haire. oh teri marji re hum kya kuch keh sakath hai.

by **Kulcha Hyderabadi** » Mon Aug 11, 2003 1:14 pm

On the positive side, he's acquiring knowledge without getting tainted! - Tell you what, he will give up once he knows and sees the difference between actual participation and just being a spectator. I suggest an early marriage!

by **bornhyderabadi** » Mon Aug 11, 2003 3:21 pm

Hi Pavani, I think you have framed a wrong question, cyber-culture can mean lots of things, of which most are good and can be of great advantage for mankind. Like anything else, there are two sides and the bad side to this is the cyber-sex. As far as surf pornography is concerned it\'s ok to a extent, but many a studies have revealed that sex-chats can easily end put in to real time experience. If you love your bf then ask him to abstain from such behaviour, as long as a person is single he/she is entitled to do whatever he/she desires. But once one commits to a steady realtionship he/she needs to stick to other person and not cheat on him. Doing these stuff just to piss him is a stupid thought. AS I told ask him to abstain from such activities, if he loves you then he will oblige. If not I thnik you know what to do

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by **Mayavi Morpheus** » Tue Aug 12, 2003 12:21 am

Probably he is not getting what he wants from you! Did you think of it from this angle?
 
And I dunno why it\'s wrong to have cyber***... it\'s much safer than regular ***, and no responsibilites whatsoever is an added bonus!
 
Let the flames start.
 
***ducks under the table for cover***

by **pavani** » Tue Aug 12, 2003 12:41 am

I know what he wants from me. If he insists, then I will leave him, the male chauvinistic pig!

by **Mayavi Morpheus** » Tue Aug 12, 2003 3:29 am

Ah well, what\'s the point in putting up with a male chauvinist, a pig in that... and what\'s the whole point of starting a separate thread for this topic?

by **pavani** » Tue Aug 12, 2003 5:34 am

That is cuz most guys only want sex with their GFs, but after sex they will leave her high and dry. After a while, they become more physical, but do not want to talk about general feelings. Only touching here & touching there. But we are deviating from the topic, brother Morpheus.

by **Mayavi Morpheus.** » Tue Aug 12, 2003 6:34 am

Wow, I got a sister now! Wah fullhyderabad.com, nice place to visit for single guys - no, you won\'t find your match, but you\'ll get a sister!
 
Anyway, I agree with what you said - most men (not all) leave their women high and dry after doing it, and I don\'t think things will ever change in India.

by **pavani** » Tue Aug 12, 2003 2:19 pm

Yes morpheus, I said you r my brother only cuz all indians are my brothers and sisters. but I am really thinking of leaving my bf. he is such a jerk...

by **DuDe_iN_tOwN** » Tue Aug 12, 2003 2:23 pm

ROFL!! This board makes me LAUGH the crap outta my stomach !!! Man!! Dudes and dudettes in india think differently. And pavani, don\'t term porn as dirty, Just take it easy ..if he\'z a jerk dump him if you don\'t like him or whatever!!!!!!

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